E ngā kaimātakitaki, kua kite hoki koutou i te kaha o te whakatairanga i te kaupapa o
te huringa ira tangata i roto i ngā pāpāho?
He tino whakamīharo, ahakoa kei mua i ngā kanohi o ā tātou tamariki nohinohi rawa atu tēnei āhuatanga ia rā, ahakoa i te
kāinga mā ngā hōtaka pouaka whakaata e kīia ana he pai mō ngā tamariki, i te kura rānei, kei reira ka
whakamanatia ngā ākonga kura tuatahi kia ako mō ngā momo mahi ā-tinana me ngā tuakiri ira.
Kua pūrongo a Kla.TV mō tēnei i ngā wā maha.
He tirohanga poto ki ngā hōtaka tamariki e whakaatu ana i te whānuitanga o te whakauru whakaaro mō ngā take whakawhiti ira.
I runga i te hongere tamariki o ARD me ZDF, KiKA, he raupapa hou e kīia nei ko "Ich bin Hannah" (Ko au ko Hannah) e kōrero
ana mō tētahi rangatahi e tautuhi ana he tangata whakawhiti ira.
E pā ana ki tētahi kotiro whakawhiti e noho ana i roto i te tinana tāne, ā, kei te tata ia ki te taenga ki te pakeke.
Nō Ahitereiria te raupapa, ā, e whakanui ana e ngā pāpāho me ngā kaiwhawhai mō te huringa ira tangata.
Ko Evie Macdonald te kaiwhakaari i a Hannah, he kaikōkiri huringa ira nō Ahitereiria.
He tama i whakapuaki he kotiro ia i te iwa tau.
Ko te taitamariki ināianei e 16 ōna tau, e whakanuia whānuitia ana mō tana tūranga whakaari hei Hannah, ā, e whakaarohia ana he
whetu e piki ake ana i waenga i ngā tamariki me ngā taitamariki.
Ko te hōtaka ā-tamariki "stark!" i runga i "ZDFtivi" e whakaatu ana i a Leo, he tekau mā toru ōna tau, i whānau hei
kotiro, ā, ināianei e kōrero ana ia mō tōna oranga hei tama.
Mōna, ko te take whakatau ko tōna kāore i hiahia ki te mahi i ngā mea e hāngai ana ki ngā
kōtiro, pērā i te mau kākahu wahine, me ērā atu.
I pōuri ia. Nā muri iho, i rongo ia mō tētahi tangata whakawhiti ira i runga i ngā pāpāho
pāpori i pāngia e ia taua wheako ano, ā, i puta ia.
I hoatu ki a ia ngā rongoā aukati pakeke ā-tinana i te tere rawa kia kore ai e tomo te tamaiti ki te pakeke ā-tinana tūturu.
Ka whakaatu hoki a "PUR+" o ZDF i a Nick, i whānau hei kōtiro, ā, kāore ia i pai ki ngā kākahu wahine.
I mua i tōna taiohitanga, i whanake ia i te pōuritanga me ngā raruraru hinengaro.
Ā, pērā i te mea i tūmanakohia, i kitea hoki e ia tōna "whakaoranga" i roto i tētahi
hōtaka whakawhiti ira tangata i runga ipurangi.
I muri tonu i te puta tere, ka whai ake ngā rongoā aukati pakeke.
He tini-kore ngā tauira o ēnei hōtaka whakangāwari whakaaro mārama i runga i te pouaka whakaata me ngā pāpāho pāpori.
I te nuinga, ko ngā pāpāho pāpori e tuku ana i tētahi tirohanga hē o te ao ki ngā tamariki me ngā rangatahi,
pēnei i te mea he tino nui rawa te tokomaha o te hunga e tautuhi ana he LGBTQ. Ehara i te mea pēnā!
Kei te kī ngā taupānga pērā i a TikTok, Discord, Instagram, Tumblr me YouTube i te nui rawa o ngā ihirangi e
tohaina ana hei pānuitanga huna mō ngā tuakiri rereke.
He mea whakamīharo kei te whakamahi ngā rangatahi i ngā pāpāho pāpori hei torotoro i ō rātou tuakiri.
Ā, nā te mea ka tuku ngā mātua i ā rātou tamariki kia whai wāhi koreutu ki ngā pāpāho pāpori, kāore rātou
e mōhio ana ko wai e kōrero ana ki ā rātou tamariki.
Ko te mea e tino miharo ana mō ēnei pūrongo katoa, ko te mea i raru whaiaro ēnei tamariki,
ā, he maha ngā wā ka whai wāhi te pōuritanga.
Kāore i waenga i a rātou – ko rātou i whakapono me huri i tō rātou ira tangata – i puta ake i a rātou anō
te whakaaro kua whānau rātou ki roto i te tinana hē.
Heoi, i runga ipurangi, i kapi rātou i ngā karere, kāore rānei i whiwhi i tētahi pūrongo whakatikatika hei reo whakahē.
Kāore he pūrongo kotahi, ahakoa i ngā hōtaka mō ngā tamariki, i runga rānei i te ipurangi, e tohu ana i ngā tūraru nui
o ngā rongoā aukati pakeke, kāore hoki e aro ana ki ngā take hōhonu o te pōuritanga i waenga i ngā tamariki.
Engari, e whakaaturia ana te huringa ira hei kēmu tamariki, pēnei i te mea he mea māmā rawa atu i te ao, ā, nā
reira ka whiwhi te tangata i te whakamanatanga nui ā-pāpori.
Kāore ēnei tamariki e whiwhi āwhina tūturu; engari, ka whakamahia rātou mō ngā whāinga o tētahi ariā.
Ko tēnei whakamahinga o ngā tamariki me ngā rangatahi kua pōrearea, kua tuhia mārama, ā, he tino
ohorere i roto i tētahi docudrama nā Epoch Times:
Ko "Panonitanga ira tangata – te pono kāore i kīia" i ahu mai i ngā wheako o ētahi rangatahi panonitanga ira,
me ngā māramatanga i puta i ngā uiuitanga ki ngā tohunga.
Ko te docudrama nei e kōrero ana i te nuinga o te wā i te pūrākau pōraruraru o Jailey nō California, he tamāhine a Abigail:
I ngā tau kua pahure ake nei, kāore anō te whānau kia mōhio ki te kupu "transgender".
Heoi anō i tēnei rā, kei mua i a ia ngā āhuatanga matatini, ā, he maha kāore i kīia, o tēnei take.
Jailey, i whakaahuatia e tōna whānau hei "kotiro tino kotiro rawa," i tipu ake ia i raro i te tiaki i California,
ā, i koa ia ki tōna oranga hei tamāhine, hei tuahine.
Engari i te tīmatanga o te tau kura hou, i huri tōna oranga.
I matapaki i te kaupapa o te tuakiri ira tangata i te kura.
I te tekau mā toru o ōna tau, ka tīmata a Jailey ki te pāngia e te pōuritanga.
I akiaki te kaiāwhina hinengaro o te kura i a ia kia torotoro hohonu ake i tōna ake tuakiri.
Nā tēnei i ara ake ai te pātai mēnā ka hari ake ia mēnā ka noho ia hei tama.
Kāore a Abigail, te whaea o Jailey, i mōhio, ā, i tohua ia ki tētahi rōpū LGBTQ i te kura.
Nā ngā kairangahau hinengaro o te kura i whakahau mārika ki ngā tamariki kia kaua e whakamōhio ki ō rātou mātua, ki ō rātou kaiako
rānei mō te noho o tēnei rōpū, kia tino haumaru ai te taiao.
I tonoa auau ngā tāngata whakawhiti ira ki ēnei hui kia kōrero ki ngā ākonga mō ā rātou wheako i te huringa ira.
He kairangahau hinengaro i whai wāhi anō ia ki ēnei hui i whakamārama ai ia he maha ngā wā ka tukuna e ngā wānanga te kare
ā-roto o te "mātou ki ērā atu" – otirā ki ngā whānau me ngā hoa, i mea ai kāore rātou i
te mārama ki ngā wheako o te hunga i pāngia.
I roto i te rōpū LGBTQ, i noho wehe haere ngā ākonga, ā, i te nuinga o te wā ka noho rātou ki a rātou anō.
Kua tino noa ake te whakamahi i ngā taupānga pērā i a Snapchat, e āhei ana i ngā kaiwhakamahi ki te
whakarereke i tō rātou kanohi kia rite ki tērā o te ira kē.
Kua piki ake ngā kōrero mō te māmā o te whakawhitinga ira tangata i ēnei rā.
Ko ngā ihirangi i whakaatuhia ki ngā ākonga i runga i ā rātou waea pūkoro i kaha ake te āhua ira tangata, pēnei i
whakamārama a tētahi o ngā hunga i pā ki a ia i te kiriata.
Nā tēnei i puta ai te tokomaha o te hunga i whakawhanake i tētahi mate e mōhiotia ana ko te
mate āwangawanga mō te āhua o te tinana (BDD) .
I muri tata iho, ka whakatau a Jailey kāore ia e hiahia ana kia noho hei kotiro, ā, ka tono ia
kia karangahia ia e te ingoa "Jason" mai i taua wā.
I mōhio a Abigail, te whaea, kāore rawa ia e whai wāhi ki tōna tamāhine.
Ahakoa i whakawhiti kōrero ki te kairangahau hinengaro o te kura, i tohutohu kia whakaroa ia.
I hoatu e te kairangahau hinengaro ki a Abigail he kōwhiringa:
Ko tēhea koe e pai ake ana – he tamāhine mate, he tama ora rānei?
Ka tīmata a Jailey ki te tango i ngā hōramoni tāne.
I te mutunga, i oma ia i tōna kāinga, ā, i kitea e ia he wāhi haumaru ki tētahi rōpū LGBTQ.
I ngana a Abigail ki te kimi i tōna tamāhine, i tohatoha pānui, i whakamōhio hoki ki te pirihimana – engari kāore i whai hua.
Kāore hoki a Jailey i tae ki te kura.
I muri i tētahi wā, i whakapae a Abigail mō te whakaraerae i tōna tamāhine, ā, me whakautu ia mō āna mahi i te kōti.
Ko te kairangahau hinengaro o te kura te tangata i tūtohu ki te tari tiaki rangatahi kia tangohia a Jailey i te whānau.
I muri i ngā whakawa a te kōti, i whiwhi a Abigail i tētahi reta mai i tētahi tāone i California e whakamōhio ana
ki a ia ka haere a Jailey ki tētahi pokanga whakarerekē ira, ā, ka utua e te tāone te utu katoa.
I hainatia te reta e te kaiwhakawā matua.
I tangohia i a Abigail te mana tiaki i tana tamāhine.
I muri i ngā pokanga me ngā rongoā hōramoni, i pā ki a Jailey he mamae tino kaha kāore e taea te
whakaaro, he pōuritanga, me ngā whakaaro whakamate.
Ko tana waea whakamutunga ki tōna whaea i whakaata i tōna mamae kāore e taea te kawe i te mamae ā-tinana o te rongoā
hōramona, engari kāore ia i kī atu ki a Abigail kei hea ia.
I tētahi rā, i whiwhi a Abigail i tētahi waea nā te pirihimana:
I whakamomori a Jailey mā te peke ki mua o tētahi tereina.
I tino wiri a Abigail i te mea i tangohia tōna tika ki te tiaki i tōna tamāhine e mamae ana.
I wehe rātou i te wehenga tere rawa, kāore te whaea, i tino aroha ki tōna tamāhine, i whai wā ki te āwhina i a ia.
I muri i te whakamomori pōraruraru a Jailey, kei te haere tonu a Abigail ki te whakatairanga i ngā tiriti, e
whakaoho ana i te mōhiotanga mō te whakarerekētanga ira mā ngā whakaaturanga me ngā mahi mātauranga.
I roto i te tukanga, ka whakaitia ia, ka whakamutu tōna reo e ngā whakahekeheke whakahoki.
He maha ngā tohunga me ngā kairangahau hinengaro i uiuitia i roto i te tuhinga whakaari, ā, e pūrongo ana rātou ka taea
anake e rātou te mahi i roto i tētahi rohe tino whaititi o ngā mahi ina tae mai ki te huringa ira tangata.
Ka tono rātou i ngā pātai, ka ngana rānei ki te kimi i te take e whakapono ai tētahi tūroro kei te noho ia i
roto i tētahi tinana hē, ka taea te whakakore i te raihana a te kairangahau hinengaro.
Ko te pūnaha kāwanatanga katoa i hangaia hei whakatairanga, hei whāngai hoki i te ariā o te panonitanga.
E akiaki ana a Dr Katherine Welch, he tākuta, i te iwi kia whai i te ara moni.
Ko te kaupapa kia huri i ngā tāngata hei tūroro mō te oranga katoa. Arā, kia whiwhi hua i te
oranga o tētahi tangata mō te roa rawa e taea ana.
He maha ngā whakahaere hauora nui e whakakore ana i ngā whakaaro a ngā kairangahau hinengaro me ngā tākuta, ā, ka
whakatūpato hoki kia whakakorehia rātou i te mahi i te wā tonu mēnā ka whakararuraru ā rātou kōrero i ngā whakahaere.
Ko te pūrākau pōraruraru a Jailey – ā, otirā, tōna whānau – ehara i te mea he take motuhake, he take rerekē rānei:
I te tau 2021, i tukuna he ture mauherenga ki tētahi pāpā i Kanata mō tana whakaahua i te whakarerekētanga
ira o tōna tamāhine 14-tau hei whakaraerae tamariki nā te kāwanatanga me te whakamate ira tamariki.
I whakataua e te kōti kāore te pāpā e tū hei aukati i te rongoā hōramoni a tōna tamāhine, ā, me
whakawhanake ia i tōna mōhio ki tōna pōuritanga ira tangata .
Ko te ngana ki te whakararu i ngā hiahia o tō tamaiti mā ngā kōrero tūmatanui he momo tūkino ā-whānau.
Ehara i te mea whai take i konei te mea i kite ai te pāpā he haepapa āna hei pāpā ki te tiaki i
tōna tamāhine i tēnei tukanga kāore e taea te huri.
I Switzerland i te tau 2023, i whakakore ā-ture ngā mana mātua o ngā mātua nā te mea i hiahia rātou ki te
tiaki i tō rātou tamāhine i te pūreirei huringa ira:
I te wā o te mate urutā o te korona, i noho mokemoke te tamaiti i te nuinga o te wā, ā, i whakapau ia i te nuinga o tōna
wā ki runga ipurangi. Nā konei i puta ai ngā uauatanga hinengaro, ā, i tīmata ia ki te tautuhi i a ia hei tama.
Ka haere ngā mātua ki tētahi hōhipera ā-motu.
I reira, i tūtohu rātou kia whakahaerehia ngā aukati pakeke.
I whakakahore ngā mātua i tēnei, ā, i whiriwhiri rātou i te rongoā hinengaro.
I whakahē tēnei e te kura kōtiro.
I whakakore ia i te whakataunga a ōna mātua, ā, ka tīmata ia i tētahi huringa ā-pāpori – he kupu whakahua hou, he ingoa hou.
I whakatika te amuamu a ngā mātua mā te whakauru i te Tari Manaaki Rangatahi me te rōpū huringa ira tangata "Le Refuge".
I whakapae rātou ki ngā mātua mō te "tūkino".
I te United States, i te kāwanatanga o Montana, i tangohia te mana tiaki o tō rātou tamāhine i te tau 2023 nā te
mea kāore rātou i whakaae kia whai rongoā tō rātou tamāhine.
I muri i te whakaaetanga o tōna tamāhine ki tētahi whare haumanu nā te mea i whakatūpatohia ia mō tētahi whakamātau
whakamomori, i reira ka mea ia kua tautuhia ia hei tama.
I whakahē ngā mātua ki tēnei, nā te mea e whakapono ana rātou nō tētahi raruraru hauora
hinengaro kāore i tautuhia te hiahia kia huri ira.
"Aroha ana ahau ki taku tamāhine me te kore here, ā, e hiahia ana ahau kia kaua ia e whakatau kaupapa kia tae rā anō
ia ki te pakeke me te wheako o te ao kia mārama ai ia ki ngā hua o āna mahi," i whakamārama tōna pāpā.
I whakanohoia te tamāhine ki te kāwanatanga o Wyoming, kei reira e whakaaetia ana ngā
maimoatanga pokanga mō ngā ira tangata mō ngā taitamariki.
Kei te noho ia ināianei i roto i tētahi rōpū e tama anake, ā, ka tukuna ia ā muri ake nei ki tōna
whaea tūturu, kāore rāua i whakapā mō ngā tau maha.
Ahakoa ka whakahokia ia ki tōna whānau taketake, kua pakaru mō ake tonu atu taua whānau.
Whakakapi: He tino whakamataku kua ngaro ā rātou tamariki i ēnei rā, ehara i te mea nā te tūkino tamariki, engari nā te hiahia kia
tiakina rātou e rātou ngā tamariki ki tō rātou ngākau katoa, ki tō rātou whakapono hōhonu rawa, kia ārai i taua tūkino tonu
ki tō rātou wairua, ki tō rātou hinengaro, ki tō rātou tinana.
Ngā mātua, ko rātou e tino tika ana ki te whakatipu i te māia me te toa ki roto i ā rātou tamariki, ā, ki te whakarite i te aroha
mō rātou kia kore ai e hiahiatia kia tautuhi tuatahi te tamaiti ki tētahi ira kē, ko rātou tuatahi ka tere
whakaitia e ngā kairangahau hinengaro, ngā kura me ngā whakahaere, ā, ka wehehia i ā rātou tamariki.
Ko tēnei raupapa mō ngā tamariki me ngā rangatahi, e pā ana ki ngā raruraru o te kura me ngā take o ia rā,
he whakatairanga whakawhiti ira tūkinotanga i waenga kōrero, kāore he wāhi ki te rūma pēpi.
Me pēhea i tere ai tātou hei hapori i te huringa mai i te "noho koe anō" ki te "whakarerekēhia tō
tinana mā te pokanga, ā, huri katoatia tō tuakiri"?
Ko ngā kaihanga pāpāho, ngā rōpū me ngā kaiwhakatairanga, me ō rātou kairangahau hinengaro kura e kīia nei, e
whakamārearea ana i ngā rangatahi me ngā tamariki kāore he ārai ki tēnei horoi hinengaro, me tū ki te kōti.
Ehara i ngā mātua e hiahia ana ki te tiaki i ā rātou tamariki i ngā whakatau ohorere ka huri i tō rātou ao katoa, ka
tango i te tūmanako ki te tīmata whānau, me ētahi atu mea maha.
Kua whakapuaki ēnei rōpū i te pakanga ki tētahi whakatupuranga katoa, ā, ka tino ngaro tēnei whakatupuranga mēnā kāore
tātou e tū pakari ki te whakahē i tēnei pōrangi ira katoa!
Kei te tīmata te tama a tētahi kaititiro i tana rā tuatahi ki te kura kōhungahunga, ā, tirohia tōna tino whakarite.
Āe rā, Buggy, e hia ngā ira tangata?
E rua.
Ā, ko wai koe?
He tama.
Ka taea e koe te noho hei kotiro?
Kāo.
Ka taea e ngā kōtiro te noho hei tama?
Kāo.
Āe rā.
Ā, he aha tāu e kī ai ina tīmata tētahi ki te kōrero mō te noho hei tangata whakawhiti ira, hei takatāpui rānei?
Ehara tēnei i te kōrero tika.
Āe rā, he aha tā tātou e kī ai?
He ngaro ngā tarukino.
Ā, kāore te komonitanga e mahi.
He pai rawa atu, e te pēpi.