He aha ngā tango ki te tiaki?
He mea āhuru rawa i te ariā, engari he pānga whakamīharo ā-tūturu:
Ka wehe ngā tamariki i ō rātou mātua i tētahi wā poto – i ētahi wā mō te toenga o tō rātou tamarikitanga.
I muri i tērā, kua wehe rātou mō ake tonu atu i ō rātou mātua.
I Tiamana, i te tau 2022, i mau atu i te 66,400 ngā tamariki me ngā rangatahi ki raro i te tiaki a te kāwanatanga, ā, i
whakanoho rātou ki ngā whānau tiaki, ki ngā whare tiaki rānei.
Ki te wehe atu i ngā 28,600 o ngā manene nohinohi kāore i te whai hoa pakeke kua whakaurua ki tēnei tatauranga, ka
puta he tatauranga whakamīharo o te 37,800 tamariki kua wehe atu i ō rātou mātua, ahakoa mō te wā poto.
I te toharite, i tangohia atu i ngā mātua neke atu i te kotahi rau tamariki ia rā o te tau.
Heoi, he tino hira ngā hononga pumau me ngā kaitiaki mō te whanaketanga o te āhua
tangata o ngā tamariki, otirā i ngā tau tuatahi.
He wāhanga matua tō ngā mātua i roto i tēnei. Ka whakarato rātou i te pumau me te haumaru ki a rātou.
He mea noa ki ngā tamariki te aroha ki ō rātou mātua, ahakoa he āhua uaua ō rātou tuakiri, he take pāpori rānei.
Ko te wehe i tētahi tamaiti i ōna mātua he tukanga tino kare ā-roto mō ngā tamariki me ngā mātua, ā, ka
whara rātou, ka pā kino nui ki tō rātou hinengaro.
Nō tēnei take, me waiho te tango tamaiti ki te tiaki hei huarahi whakamutunga tonu.
Me whakahaere anake mēnā kāore he kōwhiringa kē e wātea ana, ā, kāore e whakararuraru anō i te oranga o te tamaiti.
Heoi, ko te mea pono, kei waenga a Tiamana i ngā whenua o te ao e tino teitei ana ngā
tatauranga mō ngā tamariki kua mauhia ki raro i te tiaki.
He tino mōrearea, he tino koretake rawa atu ngā mātua Tiamana i ērā atu mātua o ētahi atu whenua?
Ranei he take kē kei muri i ēnei tatauranga tino teitei e whakamataku ana?
Āe mārika, he wā ka kore he kōwhiringa kē atu i te wehe i te tamaiti i ōna mātua, hei tauira,
mēnā kei te whakawhiu ā-tinana rānei e rātou.
Engari kei te tino kitea ēnei whakaritenga tika i roto i te nuinga o ngā take?
Ngā take mō te tango tamariki
Ko ngā take i whakaratohia mō te tango tamariki ki te tiaki e whakarato ana i ngā pārongo mō tēnei.
I te nuinga o ngā wā, ehara ēnei i te tūkino, i te whakamaunga, i te whakawhirinaki ki te
waipiro, ki ngā tarukino rānei a ngā mātua.
Haunga ngā tamariki manene kāore he hoa haere, ko te take tino noa iho i whakahuatia ko te
mea e kīia nei he taumaha rawa ki ngā mātua.
Ko ētahi atu take i whakahuatia ko ngā "mate hononga" rānei "kāore e manawaroa ki te hononga", arā, he mātua kua wehe e
hiahia ana kia noho tawhiti te tamaiti i tōna hoa rangatira o mua, ā, tae noa atu ki te "hononga
tino tata rawa i waenga i te whaea me te tamaiti".
He tino miharo rawa ēnei whakamārama.
I ngā take wehenga tāne me te wahine, he hua whai tikanga kia piri ake ngā tamariki ki te mātua e toe
ana, hei whakakī i te ngaro o te mātua kāore e noho ana.
Ā, ina hoki, he tino hononga tata tō te tamaiti ki tōna whaea, ka tino mamae ake ina tangohia tēnei hononga i a ia.
Ko te mea e miharo ana mō ēnei whakamārama, he tino tuwhera ki te whakamāramatanga.
Ko te tūkino me te whakawhirinaki ki ngā tarukino he kōrero tūturu, ā, ka taea te whakamana.
Heoi, kei te whakatau a te kaiarotake mēnā kua taumaha rawa ngā mātua, me te wā rānei e kīia ana he
tata rawa te hononga i waenga i te whaea me te tamaiti.
Ā, koinei tonu te wāhi ka puta ai tētahi raru nui.
Ngā whakaaro mātanga e ruarua ana
He maha ngā pūrongo ā-hinengaro mō ngā kaitiaki ture e whakaritea ana i te wā e tangohia ana ngā tamariki ki raro i te tiaki.
Ko ēnei pūrongo he tūāpapa nui mō te aromatawai a ngā kaiwhakawā whai mana o te Kōti Whānau, ā, ko ā rātou ihirangi e
whai wāhi ana ki ngā whakataunga mō te anamata o ngā tamariki.
I roto i te neke atu i te 90% o ngā take, ka whai ngā kaiwhakawā i ngā taunakitanga a ngā mātanga.
Heoi, he maha ngā ngoikoretanga mārama kei roto i ēnei pūrongo.
Tākuta Andrea Christidis, he kaitaunaki mātanga, he kairangahau hinengaro ā-ture, he kaiwhakaora whanonga, kua
tuhi ia i ngā pūrongo mātanga neke atu i te 1,000 mō ngā take whānau, ka whakatau ia i āna rangahau:
Kāore anō au kia kite i tētahi pūrongo kotahi e tino tutuki ana i ngā whakaritenga hangarau katoa.
I kitea he ngoikoretanga nui i te nuinga o rātou.
I ngā wā maha, i aromatawaihia e ngā mātanga ngā mātua, te mātua rānei e pā ana, i muri i ngā kōrero
poto, ā, i ētahi wā i muri noa i ngā kōrero waea.
Ka whakamārama a Tākuta Christidis i tēnei pēnei:
He mea pouri, i raro i te ture o nāianei, ka whakaaetia te tangata katoa kua tohua e te kaiwhakawā kia whakarite whakaaro
mātanga. He pātai kē anō mēnā ka taea e rātou te mahi pēnei.
I whakauhia e tētahi rangahau i whakahaerehia e IB University Berlin i te tau 2015 te kōrero a Dr Christidis.
Whai muri i te arotake i ngā whakaaro a ngā tohunga e 272, i whakatau te whare wānanga kāore e whai hua
ana te 75% o ngā whakaaro a ngā tohunga katoa i ngā tautohetohe ture whānau i Tiamana.
Ahakoa he kairangahau hinengaro kua whakangungua, he maha tonu ngā wā ka whakamahi rātou i ngā tikanga kāore i
te pūtaiao, pērā i te whakamātautau pūtau wai Rorschach.
I roto i tēnei tikanga, ka whakaaturia ki ngā tamariki ētahi pūpū wai taia, ā, ka tonoa rātou kia whakamāramahia:
He aha tā te tamaiti e kite ana i roto i te pūpū wai taia?
He tino kore e tika ana ēnei whakamātautau hei taunakitanga i te kōti, engari kei te whakahuatia tonu hei
tūāpapa mō ngā whakataunga e pā ana ki te oranga o te tamaiti.
I runga i ēnei tūāpapa, he tino taupatupatu i waenga i ngā mātanga, ka taea te tautuhi i
ngā hua katoa e hiahiatia ana e te mātanga.
He maha ngā wā ka kitea i ngā pūrongo he ngoikore ngā pūkenga whakatipu tamariki o ngā mātua, he mate āhuatanga rānei.
Ka taea ēnei te tū hei take kia ngaro te mana tiaki, ā, kia tukuna ngā tamariki ki te tiaki whāngai, ki te tiaki noho rānei.
Ngā whakaaro a ngā mātanga – he pakihi whai hua
Me utua hoki e ngā mātua ngā whakaaro a ngā tohunga, ā, ka taea e ēnei te wehe i ngā whānau katoa.
Ka taea e ngā utu mō tēnei te eke ki te 15,000 euro.
Ki te kore he moni a ngā mātua, me uru atu ngā kaiutu tāke.
E whakaputahia ana ia tau he rau rau miriona euro mā tēnei huarahi.
E kitea ana kua whanake ētahi hononga huna i waenga i ngā tohunga, ngā tari tiaki rangatahi me ngā kōti whānau.
Ko tētahi tauira ko te GWG o Bavaria, te "Rōpū mō te Hinengaro Pūtaiao o te Kōti me te Ture".
I mōhio ia ki tēnei mākete, ā, i whakarite ia i tana tauira pakihi kia tuku whakaaro mātanga ki ngā kōti whānau.
Ka tuku tere rawa ngā whakaaro a ngā tohunga ki ngā kōti mā tōna whatunga o ngā tohunga hono.
Me utu e ngā tohunga te 40% o ā rātou utu hei utu mō tēnei.
Ka whakarite te GWG i ngā hui whakangungu mō ngā kaiwhakawā o te kōti whānau i Bavaria, ā, mā
konei ka whakatū hononga ki te rōpū kaiwhakawā.
Nō reira, i te tau 2008, i tika kia whakamārama te Minita Ture o Bavaria he aha i nuinga ai ngā
kōti whānau e tuku ana i ā rātou kirimana ki a GWG.
Hei tauira, i roto i te kotahi tau, i whakawhiwhia e te kōti o Ingolstadt ki a GWG ngā
kirimana tekau mā tahi i roto i te tekau mā rua.
Nō reira, e kōrero ana ngā kaiwhakawā mō te tūnga rangatira motuhake e puritia ana e GWG.
Ngā tūnga mahi o waho – he mākete piriona pauna
Engari ko ngā pūrongo a ngā tohunga he tīmatanga noa iho o te pakihi nui. I te tau 2023, i noho 128,000
ngā tamariki i roto i ngā kāinga, ā, i noho 87,000 ngā tamariki i roto i ngā whānau tiaki.
Ko te utu mō te whakanoho i tētahi tamaiti ki roto i tētahi whare he waenga i te €42,000 me te €54,000 ia tamaiti ia tau.
Mō te manaaki tamariki whāngai, ka whiwhi ngā whānau whāngai i tētahi utu āwhina tiaki ā-marama i waenga i
te €700 me te €900, i runga i te pakeke o te tamariki.
Ka utua e ngā kaiutu tāke te €4.9 piriona ia tau mō ēnei tikanga.
I kōrero tētahi kaimahi oranga rangatahi me ngā tekau tau o te wheako mō tēnei i roto i tētahi uiui, pēnei:
Ko te wāhanga o ngā tūroro noho-roa te wāhi e whiwhi moni ana i te nuinga.
Arā, ka kitea e koe kua piki haere tonu ngā whare rongoā mō ngā tūroro noho-roa i ngā tau kua pahure.
Ko ngā tari tiaki rangatahi, arā, ko rātou e tuku ana i ngā tamariki ki te mākete.
Ka kī atu au i tēnei me te tino whakatau: tukuna ki te mākete!
Nō te mea koia tonu te āhua: he pā ki te moni, he mea katoa mō te moni.
Mēnā ka tuku mai te tari tiaki rangatahi i tētahi rangatahi ki ahau mō tētahi utu ā-ia rā, ā-ia marama rānei, ka
tuku ahau i tētahi tono ki te tari tiaki rangatahi, ā, ka kī mai te tari mēnā ka whakaae rānei ki taua tono.
He pakihi tēnei, i te mutunga iho. Ā, i te mutunga, e koa ana ngā tari tiaki rangatahi kia
whai rōpū e tango ana i ngā rangatahi i a rātou.
He maha ngā kaimahi o te tari tiaki rangatahi kāore e tino arotake ana i te āhua o te oranga o ngā tamariki i roto i
ngā whare tiaki, me te whai hua, me te whai painga rānei o ngā tikanga e whakamahia ana ki reira mō ngā tamariki.
I puta anō, i puta anō ngā kōrero mō ngā hē i kitea kua tukuna ngā tamariki nō Tiamana ki
ngā whānau tiaki me ngā whare noho ki tāwāhi.
Kāore rātou i haere ki te kura i reira, ā, kāore hoki ō rātou atu mahi i tirotirohia, i tautokohia rānei.
Ohorere, kāore anō te oranga o te tamaiti i te mea e hiahia ana.
Heoi, mō ngā whakahaere e whai wāhi ana ki tēnei tikanga whakaraerae, he pakihi nui tēnei.
Ka whiwhi tētahi whakahaere Tiamana i te tari tiaki rangatahi i te moni tae noa ki te 5,000 euro ia marama mō ia tamaiti.
Heoi, mēnā ka tukuna e te whakahaere te tamaiti ki tētahi whānau tiaki i Pōrana, hei tauira, me utu noa iho e 600
euro ia marama mō te noho a te tamaiti i roto i tēnei whānau.
He maha ngā wā kāore e tirohia he aha ka puta ki te moni e toe ana.
He āhuatanga ohorere i ngā tari tiaki rangatahi
He hua tēnei nō te ngoikore nui o ngā kaimahi i roto i te nuinga o ngā tari tiaki rangatahi.
He maha ngā kaimahi o te mana whakahaere e pāngia ana e te taumahatanga mahi tonu.
He iti rawa te wā me ngā kaimahi hei aroturuki i ngā wāhi me te oranga o ngā tamariki.
He maha ngā kaimahi pāpori e tuku ana i ā rātou tūranga mahi, nā te mea kāore rātou e tautoko ana i te āhua o ngā mahi.
Ka whakakino ake anō i te raru. Hei tāpiri, he ngoikore ngā kaimahi mātanga.
Kāore he rongoā e tūmanakohia ana i roto i ngā mahi tōrangapū
Kāore e taea te whakapae ka whakatika ngā tōrangapū i tēnei āhuatanga, nā te mea ka whiwhi rātou i ngā
painga nui mai i ngā pakihi e pā ana ki ngā tamariki.
Kei te mātakitaki tātou i tēnei wā i tētahi pakanga nui mō ngā rauemi tahua, e whakamahia ana e ngā kai-tōrangapū hei tautoko i
ā rātou kaupapa whakaaro, he maha ngā wā e ruarua ana, mai i te "whakaora moana" ki te mea e
kīia nei ko te "kaupapa here ā-waho mō te wāhine".
Ko te tango tamariki ki te tiaki he taputapu e whai painga ana ki te wātea pūtea o ngā kaitōrangapū ā-motu.
Ka whakaputa moni te pakihi e pā ana ki ngā tamariki, nā te mea he nui te kaha mahi e hiahiatia ana.
Ka whakaiti tēnei i ngā tatauranga kore mahi, ā, ka iti ake te moni āwhina kore mahi e utua ana e te kāwanatanga.
I taua wā anō, ko te tāke moni whiwhi e utua ana e ngā kaimahi o ngā ratonga tiaki tamariki me ngā rangatahi e kawe mai ana i
tētahi moni nui ki ngā pūtea ā-motu, ā, ko te nuinga o taua moni ka haere ki ngā kāwanatanga ā-motu me ngā kāwanatanga ā-rohe.
Heoi, ehara i te kāwanatanga ā-motu e kawe ana i ngā utu mō te tango tamariki ki raro i te tiaki, engari ko ngā
mātua me ngā mana ā-rohe, ā, he wāhanga iti noa tā rātou o ngā moni whiwhinga tāke whiwhinga moni.
Ka taea hoki e te kāwanatanga te whakamahi i te tango tamariki hei painga māna i ētahi atu huarahi – arā, hei tikanga here.
I kitea tēnei i te wā o te mate urutā o te korona:
I konei, ko te tango tamariki ki raro i te tiaki a te kāwanatanga he hoari matau i whakamahia hei
whakamataku i ngā kaiwhakawā i ngā tikanga mō te huaketo korona.
I roto i ētahi take maha, i tangohia ngā tamariki i ō rātou whānau nā te kore o ō rātou mātua i
akiaki kia mau rātou i ngā kapi-waha ki te kura.
He kino nui i hua ake i te tangohanga tamariki
I taua wā, kei te pāngia e tētahi aitua ngā whānau kua wehewehea i roto i tēnei horopaki.
I ētahi wā, ka tangohia ngā tamariki e te pirihimana i ō rātou whānau, i ō rātou kura, i ō
rātou whare tiaki tamariki rānei, mā te kaha.
I roto i tā mātou hōtaka "Te tango tamariki ā-ture – te whakauru tamariki ki te tiaki i raro i te mīkroskopu", ka pūrongo
mai te hunga i pāngia mō ā rātou wheako ki ēnei whakaurunga.
Hei tāpiri, e whakaatu ana ngā riipene ataata whakamāharahara i ngā whaea e tangohia ana ā
rātou tamariki e karanga ana i ō rātou ringa.
He wehenga tino kino pēnei anake he whara mō te oranga o ngā tamariki nohinohi, ā, he maha
ngā wā ka waiho rātou he tino whara ā-hinengaro.
Ka puta he mamae hohonu me ngā panonitanga whanonga i ngā tamariki.
Hei tauira, i te rua tau te pakeke o Pōro, i mutu ia i te kōrero i te wā i tangohia ai ia i tōna
whānau, ā, mai i taua wā kua raru tonu tōna kōrero.
Ka whai ake i tēnei ngā wiki me ngā marama e huna ana ngā tamariki i ō rātou mātua.
I muri i te whakawa a te kōti, ka taea te toro ki ngā tamariki.
Heoi, he tino torutoru noa iho tēnei, ā, e raro ana i ngā ture mārō.
Me kaua ngā mātua e whakaatu i ō rātou kare ā-roto, me kaua rānei e kōrero mō tō rātou hītori o mua i tohatoha.
Mā tēnei huarahi, kāore ngā tamariki e rongo ana kei te mamae hoki ō rātou mātua i te wehenga.
He tino whakamataku te pānga o tēnei whanonga ā-pāpā me ā-māmā, nā te mea i whakahaua, kāore i te taiao.
Heoi, mēnā ka takahia ngā ture, ka aukatia katoatia ngā toro.
I te nuinga o ngā wā, kāore te whakanoho ki tētahi whare tiaki e arahi ana ki te whakapai ake i te āhuatanga o te kainoho.
He maha ngā wā ka puta he raruraru whanonga ki ngā tamariki.
Ka taea e rātou te whakawhiti atu ki te hinengaro-ā-tamariki me te hinengaro-ā-taitamariki, ā, ka
rongoāhia rātou ki ngā rongoā hinengaro me te Ritalin.
Kairangahau hinengaro a Dr Christidis:
Nō reira, kāore ngā tamariki e āwhinatia ana i ngā whare whakahaere.
Ka taea anake tēnei i ngā tamariki kua tino whakaraeraetia, ā, kua tautuhia e te rongoā ā-ture ngā whara
tino kino i roto i a rātou. Te whakaraerae ā-tinana…
Ka whakapuaki ia he rangahau whānui kua kitea e tata ana ki te 90% o ngā rangatahi kua pāngia i mua i tō rātou puta mai.
Ka mutu, ka riro rātou hei tāpuke ki ngā tarukino, ki te waipiro rānei, ā, ka huri rānei ki te hara.
Kāore rātou e whiwhi i ngā tohu e tika ana, nō reira ka noho rātou hei taumaha ki te kāwanatanga.
Tākuta Christidis: "He aha ka pā ki ngā tamariki i ngā whare tamariki? Kei raro rātou i te mauhere."
He tauwehenga kaimahi ā rātou e nui ana kia tangi koe.
Nō reira, kei reira hoki ngā penapena e mahia ana, i te mea kua hokona katoa ki ngā ringa tūmataiti.
E hiahia noa ana rātou katoa kia whai hua. Nō reira, kāore ngā tamariki e tiakina, kāore hoki e whakatenatena.
Hei tāpiri, e puta ana ngā pūrongo maha e pā ana ki ngā kino kino ake i ngā kāinga me te tiaki whāngai.
I Berlin, hei tauira, i whakanoho ngā tamariki ki ngā mātua tiaki he kaikāhukura mō ngā tekau tau, i
runga i te tohutohu a te kaiako pāpori a Helmut Kentler.
Kua mate a Kentler ināianei, engari ka taea te whakapae kei te ora tonu ngā whatunga me ngā hononga tawhito, nā
te mea kāore anō kia whakahaere he rangahau tika, he rangahau mau tonu rānei tae noa ki tēnei rā.
Ka kitea ētahi atu taipitopito i roto i te tuhinga whakaata "Kentler Gate" nā te rōpū mahi "Demo für alle" (Demo for All).
Kua puta hoki ētahi tautohetohe maha i ngā whare noho tamariki, e pā ana ki te whakaraerae me te tūkino ā-tinana o
ngā tamariki, kāore nei he tiaki a ō rātou mātua, ā, kei te aroha noa rātou ki ngā kaiwhakaraerae.
E kī ana a Dr Christidis mō tētahi Kāinga Tamariki SOS i tukinotia ai ngā tamariki e ngā tino whai rawa mō ngā tau.
Ka kōrero ia mō ngā take e 160.
I roto i āna rangahau mō ngā tuhinga whakaata e pā ana ki te pāhārearea tamariki me ngā tūkino ritenga a te Atua Kē ki ngā
tamariki , kua kitea anō e Kla.TV ngā take maha i tūkino ai ngā kaihārearea whai mana i ngā tamariki
nō ngā whare tiaki tamariki, kāore rātou i whakamā.
Kei te hanga te ātete
Ko Dr Andrea Christidis pea te kaikampene tino rongonui rawa atu ki te whawhai ki ngā tango ture-kore i Tiamana.
I roto i ngā tau, kua whawhai ia ki te ātete nui rawa atu.
Ināianei kua whakatūria e ia te rōpū "AXION-Resist" hei mahi ngātahi ki te whawhai ki ēnei mahi hē, me ngā
tākuta, ngā kairangahau, ngā rōia me ngā kairangahau hara.
Hei tāpiri atu ki te tautoko i ngā whānau kua pāngia, ka whakahaere a Axion Resist i ngā mahi whakawhanaungatanga
tūmatanui whai hua, pērā i te wānanga "Zielscheibe Kind & Bindung" (Te Whāinga: Ngā Tamariki & te Here), ka taea te
mātakitaki katoa i runga i tō rātou paetukutuku https://axionresist.com, ā, ka
kitea he putanga poto i www.kla.tv/29203.
Heoi, me tautoko tātou katoa i a Dr Christidis me ōna hoa mahi mō tēnei mahi nui.
Ko te tango i ngā tamariki i ō rātou mātua me te kore he take tino nui he hara ki ngā mema ngoikore rawa o tō tātou hapori,
ā, ka puta he pānga mō te oranga katoa ki te hunga kua pāngia.
Ko te mea e wehe tonu ana ēnei tamariki maha me ō rātou mātua i waenga i a rātou anō, mai i tētahi wā poto ki tētahi
atu, he tino whakamīharo te āhua o tēnei mō ngā taha e rua.
Nā te mea kāore ēnei tikanga tango e whakapuaki ana i te nuinga o te wā, ā, ka pūrongo noa ngā pāpāho i a rātou i runga i te āhua
whatiwhati, e karangatia ana tātou katoa kia āwhina ki te whakakōkiritia o tēnei take ki te aro o te wānanga ā-hapori, ā,
kia pēhia ngā kaipōti kia whakatika mutunga iho i te āhuatanga!