WEBVTT 00:00.539 --> 00:06.522 Tun daga shekarun 1990, kotunan iyali suna fitar da wani irin hukunci a rikice-rikicen 00:06.522 --> 00:10.858 kulawa da yara wanda ba ya cikin mafi alherin yara. 00:10.858 --> 00:16.719 Daruruwan yara masu lafiya da suka haɗu da al'umma an kwace su daga wurin mahaifiyoyinsu, kuma har yanzu ana 00:16.719 --> 00:19.971 ci gaba da kwace su, yawancinsu mahaifiyoyi ne kadai. 00:19.971 --> 00:30.163 Ba a zargi uwayen da tashin hankali, cin zarafi ko sakaci ba, sai dai ana zargin wata matsala a dangantakarsu da yaron. 00:30.163 --> 00:38.457 Zargin da ake yi wa iyaye mata shi ne cewa sun wanke kwakwalwar 'ya'yansu har suka haifar da abin da ake kira 00:38.457 --> 00:46.860 Parental Alienation Syndrome, ko PAS a takaice, wanda ya sa su ƙi mahaifinsu da suka taɓa ƙauna. 00:46.860 --> 00:53.419 A gaskiya, binciken da Dr Herbert Renz-Polster ya gudanar yana nuna cewa wannan ikirarin ganewar asali ƙirƙira ce ta wani 00:53.419 --> 00:58.949 likitan kwakwalwa na yara da matasa wanda ya ke son amfani da shi don juya shari'o'in kulawa da yara a 00:58.949 --> 01:02.751 bangaren iyayen maza da ake zargin su da pedofiliya. 01:02.751 --> 01:08.220 Don haka ya kirkiro cikakkiyar hanya don juya rawar mai laifi da wanda abin ya shafa. 01:08.220 --> 01:16.416 A ƙarshen shekarar 2024, likitan yara, masanin kimiyya kuma mai wayar da kan jama'a Renz-Polster ya wallafa 01:16.416 --> 01:24.692 bincikensa kan ainihin asalin ka'idar PAS a shafinsa na yanar gizo "kinder-verstehen.de". 01:24.692 --> 01:31.911 Kla.TV ta taƙaita ɓangaren farko na rahotonta mai zurfin bincike da cikakken bayani a gare ku: 01:31.911 --> 01:40.686 Dr Renz-Polster ya shafe daruruwan sa'o'i a 'yan shekarun nan yana nazarin ka'idar Parental Alienation Syndrome, daga yanzu 01:40.686 --> 01:45.788 za a kira ta PAS, da kuma karanta ayyukan wanda ya ƙirƙire ta. 01:45.788 --> 01:51.569 Ya yi ƙoƙarin gano yadda mabiya wannan akida suka samu damar sanya wannan "ganewar" wadda ba 01:51.569 --> 01:55.750 ta da ma'ana ta zama abin karɓa a kotunan iyali. 01:55.750 --> 02:03.771 Ko da yake abin mamaki ne, a cikin 'yan shekarun da suka gabata – har zuwa aƙalla shekarar 2023 – kowace uwa a 02:03.771 --> 02:11.942 wannan ƙasa na iya rasa hakkin kula da yaronta ko ma damar ganinsa saboda kawai an zargeta da PAS. 02:11.942 --> 02:18.517 Wani lokaci, kawai zargin uwa da shayar da ɗanta da yawa ko na tsawon lokaci mai yawa zai iya isa. 02:18.517 --> 02:24.695 Zargin PAS ko "symbiosis" yanzu kungiyoyin masu tasiri da alaƙa suka haɓaka su zuwa makamai da ake da 02:24.695 --> 02:31.134 wahalar kare kansu a shari'o'in kulawa da yara masu rikici, a cewar Herbert Renz-Polster. 02:31.134 --> 02:33.400 Asalin ka'idar PAS 02:33.400 --> 02:40.618 Dr Richard Gardner, 'ubon' wannan ra'ayi mai jayayya, ya bayyana da cikakken tsanaki da tabbaci: 'Cin zarafin 02:40.618 --> 02:45.454 jima'i ba lallai ne ya zama abin tashin hankali ga yaro ba.' 02:45.454 --> 02:52.572 Ko yaro zai ji raɗaɗi saboda cin zarafi ya danganta ne da yadda al'umma ke kallon irin waɗannan abubuwan da suka faru. 02:52.572 --> 02:59.448 Yaran da aka yi masu cin zarafin jima'i suna sha wahala saboda al'ummarmu tana yin martani fiye da kima ga pedofiliya. 02:59.448 --> 03:09.060 Yara suna da halin jima'i ta dabi'a kuma za su iya fara hulɗar jima'i da manya ta hanyar 'seducing' su. 03:09.060 --> 03:18.060 Lokacin da aka gano dangantakar jima'i, yaron zai sa ya zama kamar babban mutum ne ya fara ta kuma shi ne ke da laifi. 03:18.060 --> 03:26.001 Masani da ake zargi sai ya fayyace zurfin mahallin da ke bayan jima'i tsakanin manya da yara kamar haka: 03:26.001 --> 03:35.271 A gaskiya, jima'in dangi wata dabi'a ce mai amfani ga ilmin halittu, domin tana kiyaye tsarkin jinin zuriya. 03:35.271 --> 03:41.013 Jima'i da yara zai kuma ƙara yawan 'ya'ya. 03:41.013 --> 03:46.675 Za a tsare ku daga sauran maganganunsa masu ban haushi, ƙaunatattun masu kallo, domin 03:46.675 --> 03:51.340 cikakken "ra'ayin ƙwararre" nasa ya zama abin ƙyama. 03:51.340 --> 03:56.760 Amma abin da bai kamata a yi watsi da shi a wannan lokaci shi ne gaskiyar cewa dabi'a kanta 03:56.760 --> 04:00.173 ba ta yarda da jima'i tsakanin jini ɗaya ba. 04:00.173 --> 04:05.283 Saboda haka, da kyau ne, ƙasashe da yawa suna da dokoki da ke haramta jima'i tsakanin 'yan uwa. 04:05.283 --> 04:09.249 Hadarin cututtuka na gado da sauran cututtuka ya yi yawa, kuma yawan mutuwar yara da aka 04:09.249 --> 04:12.732 haifa ta hanyar jima'i tsakanin jini ya yi yawa. 04:12.732 --> 04:18.685 Da haka, a fili muke magana ne game da fyade kan yara a nan. 04:18.685 --> 04:24.952 Ga abin da tsohon jami'in Scotland Yard kuma mai fallasa laifuka Jon Wedger ya ce: 04:24.952 --> 04:30.687 " kuma daga baya ne kawai na gano cewa mata ba za su iya haihuwa ba saboda mahaifarsu ta karkata 04:30.687 --> 04:36.506 sakamakon lalacewar da aka yi wa jikinsu na matasa." 04:36.506 --> 04:40.890 Maza suna fama da rashin iko wajen sarrafa fitsari da matsalolin baya saboda hanjinsu ya fashe 04:40.890 --> 04:43.644 da makamantan haka. Kuma ba mu ji komai a kai ba! 04:43.644 --> 04:48.870 Zafin da hakan ke haifarwa, ciwon jiki sannan kuma rauni! 04:48.870 --> 04:54.513 Ta yaya Mista Gardner, duk da irin waɗannan hujjoji, zai iya ci gaba da jayayya cewa paedophilia sau da 04:54.513 --> 05:00.441 yawa lamari ne na "imprinting" wanda mutumin da abin ya shafa ba shi da ikon yakar sa? 05:00.441 --> 05:06.340 Paedophilia tana tasowa ne daga kyakkyawar kwarewar jima'i tsakanin yara da manya. 05:06.340 --> 05:12.701 Gamsuwar 'orgasmic' da yaron ya ji tana tabbatar da cewa yaran da aka yi masu cin 05:12.701 --> 05:18.018 zarafi daga baya za su so yin haka ga 'ya'yansu: 05:18.018 --> 05:25.082 "Yana da sauƙi a fahimci yadda yaro zai iya kamuwa da irin wannan ƙwarewa sannan ya yi ƙaunar 05:25.082 --> 05:30.311 samun gamsuwa akai-akai iri ɗaya," in ji Gardner. 05:30.311 --> 05:35.525 A wannan lokaci, a kalla, mutum na mamakin dalilin da ya sa ba a gurfanar da wannan 05:35.525 --> 05:39.140 mutumin ba, maimakon a ba shi mukamin ƙwararre! 05:39.140 --> 05:42.028 Game da Dr Richard Gardner 05:42.028 --> 05:48.599 Gardner ya yi aure kuma yana da yara uku; aurensa da Lee Gardner ya ƙare da saki. 05:48.599 --> 05:54.721 Da farko, shi likitan kwakwalwa ne na yara da matasa, amma daga baya ya mayar da hankalinsa gaba ɗaya kan aiki a matsayin 05:54.721 --> 05:58.335 ƙwararren shaida na ilimin halayyar ɗan adam a kotunan iyali. 05:58.335 --> 06:01.420 Ya kashe kansa yana da shekaru 72 . 06:01.420 --> 06:09.980 A cikin shari'u 400 a jihohi 25 na Amurka, abokan huldarsa sun fi kasancewa maza da ake zargin cin zarafin yara. 06:09.980 --> 06:15.674 Bugu da ƙari, Gardner ya yi aiki a kan wallafe-wallafe da dama, ciki har da littattafai sama da 40 da daruruwan 06:15.674 --> 06:21.996 makaloli, mafi yawansu ya wallafa da kansa ta kamfanin buga littattafai da ya kafa musamman don ayyukansa . 06:21.996 --> 06:26.434 Yawon gabatar da lacca ya kai shi ko'ina a duniya – ciki har da Jamus. 06:26.434 --> 06:32.430 A cikin ayyukansa, Richard Gardner ya fi yin rikodin ra'ayoyinsa da abin da ya yi imani da shi, waɗanda ya samu a 06:32.430 --> 06:36.403 matsayin ƙwararren shaida a rikice-rikicen kulawa da yara. 06:36.403 --> 06:42.820 Richard Gardner bai gudanar da bincikensa da kansa ba, kuma bai taɓa kasancewa cikin ƙungiyar masu aikin kimiyya ba. 06:42.820 --> 06:50.820 Kaɗan daga cikin takardun da suka bayyana a mujallun kimiyya a kai a kai sun haifar da muhawarori masu tsanani tsakanin ƙwararru. 06:50.820 --> 06:56.896 Tun da ɗaliban Jami'ar Columbia wani lokaci sukan bi shi a aikinsa, sai ya riƙe mukamin "farfesa na 06:56.896 --> 07:00.881 asibiti" – wanda ba shi da alaƙa da ainihin mukamin farfesa. 07:00.881 --> 07:08.380 Ya kuma ji daɗin rubuta game da ci gaban tunani da na jima'i na jarirai da ƙananan yara – cike da iƙirarin ban tsoro 07:08.380 --> 07:13.288 game da zato-zaton sha'awar jima'in baki da suke yi wa ubansu. 07:13.288 --> 07:20.620 Duk da haka, Kla.TV ya dakatar da rahoton game da tunanin batsa na Gardner da yake da wahalar hadiyewa a nan. 07:20.620 --> 07:29.735 Iko-iko cewa jarirai da yara suna jan hankalin iyayensu maza a fili suna nuna irin mutumin da Gardner yake a gaskiya. 07:29.735 --> 07:33.569 Kuma abin mamaki ne cewa an amince da shi a matsayin "shaidar ƙwararre" a 07:33.569 --> 07:36.884 rikice-rikicen kulawa da yara na tsawon shekaru da dama. 07:36.884 --> 07:40.995 Juyin wanda abin ya shafa da mai laifi ta hanyar PAS 07:40.995 --> 07:46.313 Gardner ya samu babban nasara a shekarun 1980 da ka'idar PAS ɗinsa. 07:46.313 --> 07:53.732 Da sauri ya bayyana a cikin shari'ar kulawa da yara inda Gardner ya yi aiki a matsayin ƙwararren shaida, cewa ya ƙirƙiri wani irin 07:53.732 --> 07:59.495 "wuka mai yawa" da wannan zargin rashin lafiya, wanda za a iya amfani da shi don juya shari'ar kulawa 07:59.495 --> 08:02.988 mai matuƙar cece-kuce zuwa ga amfanin abokan huldarsa. 08:02.988 --> 08:11.590 "Wuka Swiss Army" da ake nuni da ita tana kunshe da maƙallan mai sauƙi: wato ikirarin cewa yara a halitta – 08:11.590 --> 08:19.440 wato ta gado – suna makale da iyayensu kuma koyaushe suna ƙaunar dukkannin iyayensu daidai. 08:19.440 --> 08:27.267 Wannan ƙauna ga iyaye biyun tana da matuƙar muhimmanci ga rayuwa; ita kaɗai ce ke iya tabbatar da cikakken ci gaban yaro. 08:27.267 --> 08:34.201 Dr Renz-Polster ya ƙi yarda ƙwarai: "Haɗin kai yana nuna kasancewa tare da juna da aka rayu kuma aka 08:34.201 --> 08:38.509 ji, (...) ba kawai sakamakon dangantakar jini ba ne." 08:38.509 --> 08:44.386 Duk da haka, Gardner ya yi amfani da wannan ikirari a cikin shari'o'in cin zarafi inda aka tabbatar cewa 08:44.386 --> 08:51.180 mahaifin ya aikata cin zarafin jima'i – kuma inda tambayar abin da ya kamata a yi da mai laifin ta taso. 08:51.180 --> 08:55.331 A nan, sau da yawa yana muhawara ta amfani da tarkon nesa-da-juna: 08:55.331 --> 09:02.513 Yaron da aka yi masa cin zarafi ya kamata ya ci gaba da kasancewa da mai laifi domin, "da dabi'a," yana buƙatar 09:02.513 --> 09:07.287 iyaye biyu don ci gabansa kuma a zahiri yana ƙaunar su duka. 09:07.287 --> 09:16.378 Saboda haka, yana da muhimmanci a yi taka tsantsan na musamman don kada a ware yaron daga uwa ko uba mai cin zarafi. 09:16.378 --> 09:24.231 Saboda haka, cire mai laifi daga wurin yaron ya kamata a yi la'akari da shi da gaske ne kawai idan duk yunkurin 09:24.231 --> 09:30.373 magance paedophilia da sake haɗa iyali ya tabbatar sun gaza. 09:30.373 --> 09:40.377 Idan yaro ya ƙi mahaifinsa wanda dokokin gargajiya suka haɗa shi da shi, to hakan ba zai iya kasancewa bisa ga ra'ayin yaron ba. 09:40.377 --> 09:44.175 Daga karshe, wannan ba halayya ce ta halitta ba. 09:44.175 --> 09:54.958 Bugu da ƙari, idan yaron ya yi ta dage kuma ba ya karɓa, to dole ne wani uwa mai damuwa ke sarrafa shi. 09:54.958 --> 10:03.525 Dr. Gardner ya kira wannan rashin lafiya Parental Alienation Syndrome. 10:03.525 --> 10:09.868 Don haka, maimakon cire mai aikata laifi domin kare yaron, mataki na farko shi ne a gabatar wa yaron cin 10:09.868 --> 10:14.111 zarafin da mahaifinsa ke yi a matsayin abin da ya saba. 10:14.111 --> 10:18.900 Gardner, a gefe guda, ya yi suka ga maganin kwakwalwa ga yara da aka zalunta. 10:18.900 --> 10:23.526 Don haka, ya kamata a yi wa yaron bayani cewa babu iyaye cikakke. 10:23.526 --> 10:30.534 Ana iya kuma gaya masa "game da sauran al'ummomi inda ake ɗaukar wannan hali a matsayin na al'ada". 10:30.534 --> 10:37.543 A cewar Dr Renz-Polster, ana iya taƙaita dukkan aikin Gardner a cikin wannan magana: 10:37.543 --> 10:45.262 Cin zarafin jima'i ga yara ba shi da mummuna a asali – kimantarmu ce matsalar. 10:45.262 --> 10:48.879 PAS a matsayin kayan aiki don ra'ayoyin kwararru marasa doka 10:48.879 --> 10:57.167 Ganewar PAS, ciki har da "haɗin kai na symbiotic" , tare da sauran ganewar da suka shafi hakan kamar " rashin jure dangantaka 10:57.167 --> 11:04.063 ", suna da matuƙar shahara a tsakanin wasu ƙwararru a shari'o'in kulawa da yara, lauyoyi, har ma da wasu 11:04.063 --> 11:08.344 ofisoshin kula da jin daɗin matasa da kotunan iyali. 11:08.344 --> 11:16.866 Wani cibiyar ƙwararru ta ƙware wajen ƙirƙirar wannan zargin a matsayin "makamin dabaru a rikicin kulawa da yara," kamar yadda 11:16.866 --> 11:22.797 Farfesa Jörg Fegert, daraktan likitancin Cibiyar Kula da Lafiyar Matuƙar Yara da Matasa 11:22.797 --> 11:26.933 a Asibitin Jami'ar Ulm, ke kiran tsarin PAS. 11:26.933 --> 11:35.660 Kuma ƙungiyoyin matsin lamba masu dacewa suna gaske suna ganin cewa wannan ka'idar za ta ba su damar ikirarin "haƙƙin iyaye". 11:35.660 --> 11:43.671 Masanin zamantakewa Dr. Wolfgang Hammer ya tabbatar da wannan a fili tare da bincike daga 11:43.671 --> 11:48.730 shekarar 2022 da 2024 – ga abin da Renz-Polster ya ce: 11:48.730 --> 11:52.140 "Wadannan lamura ba su faru ne kaɗai ba." 11:52.140 --> 12:00.114 Gaskiyar cewa ana kwace yara masu daidaituwa a zamantakewa daga babban mai kula da su, a maye gurbinsu ko a ɗauke su cikin 12:00.114 --> 12:07.108 kulawar gwamnati ba tare da dalilai na al'ada da za a iya fahimta kamar watsi ko tabbacin cin zarafi ba – a 12:07.108 --> 12:11.968 bayan wannan akwai wata akida da ta ɓoye kanta da 'kimiyya'. 12:11.968 --> 12:21.122 A cikin rahotonsa, Hammer ya bayyana dalla-dalla tushen hukuncin, inda kashi mai yawa daga cikinsu za a iya gano asali daga PAS. 12:21.122 --> 12:27.758 Akwai ma hukuncin Kotun Koli da ke ikirarin cewa uwaye suna nisan da 'ya'ya ko su ƙirƙiri 12:27.758 --> 12:32.620 tashin hankali da cin zarafi domin kawai hana haɗuwa. 12:32.620 --> 12:41.181 Wadannan labarai ba za a iya tabbatar da su bisa hujjojin ƙwararru ko na doka ba, amma su ne tushen yanke shawara da ka iya haifar 12:41.181 --> 12:45.747 da mummunan sakamako ga yara da uwa. Dr Renz-Polster ya rubuta: 12:45.747 --> 12:50.682 "Kuma wannan tsarin ya dogara ne akan ka'idojin wannan mutumin (Gardner) da ba daidai 12:50.682 --> 12:54.229 ba (kuma, a ra'ayina, cike da kura-kurai)." 12:54.229 --> 12:58.086 A ƙarshe, bayanin Dr Herbert Renz-Polster na 12:58.086 --> 13:06.600 Ina mai nuna wata rashin adalci mai girma wadda ƙwararru da dama suka yi watsi da ita na tsawon lokaci mai tsawo. 13:06.600 --> 13:14.046 Duk da haka, babban damuwata shi ne cewa ana amfani da PAS, ' rashin jure alaƙa ', ' alaƙar symbiotic ', wato 13:14.046 --> 13:23.180 dangantaka masu cutar juna na dogaro, daga kungiyoyin masu ruwa da tsaki a matsayin wata dabara ta tabbatar da muradunsu. 13:23.180 --> 13:31.220 Abin da nake nufi shi ne cewa an zalunci yara kuma har yanzu ana zaluntar su sakamakon waɗannan 'ganewar'. 13:31.220 --> 13:37.445 Kuma me ya sa wasu alkalan kotu, lauyoyi da wakilan shari'a ba sa ganin wannan rashin adalci? 13:37.445 --> 13:41.461 Eh, mutum zai gaske dole ne ya yi zato cewa suna ma ɓoye shi! 13:41.461 --> 13:47.607 Ivo Sasek ya yi Allah wadai da wannan rashin aiki na kotu a cikin "Darussan Bakwai" nasa, 13:47.607 --> 13:51.005 kuma ya yi kira gare su su kammala aikinsu. 13:51.005 --> 13:55.560 3. Ga ma'aikantar shari'a a duk matakai da hukumomin aiwatarwarta 13:55.560 --> 14:03.803 Mai Girma, masu gabatar da kara da hukumomin tsaro: duk da dokoki masu bayyananne, kun tsaya kawai kuna kallo yayin da aka ba da 14:03.803 --> 14:09.213 damar samun fina-finan batsa kyauta ga yara mafi ƙanana a duk faɗin duniya, har zuwa 14:09.213 --> 14:12.875 kwamfutocinsu na tafi-da-gidanka da wayoyin hannu. 14:12.875 --> 14:18.292 Ba ku tsoma baki ba lokacin da masu fara jima'i tun suna ƙanana suka fara lalata 'ya'yanmu tun suna a 14:18.292 --> 14:23.744 makarantar rassa, suna yi wa kansu batsa, jima'i ta dubura, shan maniyyin namiji da makamantansu. 14:23.744 --> 14:29.475 Har zuwa yau, ka kasance shiru a gaban masu cin zarafin yara marasa adadi. 14:29.475 --> 14:36.311 Kafin a watsa wannan shirin, Dr Renz-Polster ya aika wa tawagar edita ta Kla.TV wani muhimmin saƙo da zai iya 14:36.311 --> 14:40.570 taimaka wa iyayen da abin ya shafa su gabatar da hujjojin su: 14:40.570 --> 14:48.002 A shekarar 2023, an ce Majalisar Kare Hakkin Dan Adam ta Majalisar Dinkin Duniya ta ƙi amincewa da 'parental alienation', 14:48.002 --> 14:52.550 wato nisan iyaye da yara, a matsayin 'pseudo-concept'. 14:52.550 --> 15:01.262 A cikin hukunci daga watan Nuwamba 2023, Kotun Kasa ta Tsarin Mulki ta kuma bayyana cewa komawa ga ka'idar PAS, wadda ake ɗauka 15:01.262 --> 15:11.019 a matsayin an yi mata ƙaryata ta kimiyya, ba ta samar da tushe mai ƙarfi isasshe don yanke shawara bisa ga mafi alherin yaron ba. 15:11.019 --> 15:19.458 A taƙaice: Ba za a iya amfani da PAS a matsayin hujja a kotu ba, domin an ƙi shi a matsayin ka'ida. 15:19.458 --> 15:30.351 Ma'aikatar Shari'a ta amince kuma ta yi kira ga kotunan iyali na Jamus da su bi wannan hukunci na Kotun Kasa ta Tarayya. 15:30.351 --> 15:37.136 Yanzu yana da muhimmanci a lura kuma a bukaci cewa waɗannan ƙudurrori ba kalmomi ne marasa ma'ana ba da aka yi 15:37.136 --> 15:44.609 domin kawai faranta wa mutane rai ko ma don ba da ra'ayin cewa ana damuwa da ci gaban da ba a so da rashin adalci. 15:44.609 --> 15:51.442 Gaskiyar cewa waɗanda ake kira "masana" da masu kimantawa kamar Gardner sun sami damar yadawa da gabatar da ikirari da 15:51.442 --> 15:56.943 tatsuniyoyi masu tallata paedophilia tsawon shekaru ba tare da wata ƙalubale ba, yana haifar da 15:56.943 --> 16:01.199 tsananin shakku game da ƙoƙarin tsarin shari'a. 16:01.199 --> 16:10.633 A ƙarshe, godiya ta musamman ga Dr Herbert Renz-Polster, wanda zai ci gaba da bincikensa mai faɗi a cikin wasu sassa huɗu! 16:10.633 --> 16:16.862 Masu kallo, don Allah ku taimaka wajen wayar da kan al'ummarku game da wannan batu. 16:16.862 --> 16:28.044 Kuna son canza duniya? 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