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Ukuhlaselwa ngokwesondo phakathi kwabantwana
kwiindawo zokhathalelo lwabantwana kuyanda.

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Le yayiyisihloko kwi-Bild ngoDisemba 2024: Uhlaselo
olubhalisiweyo eNorth Rhine-Westphalia: Amanani amatsha

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athusayo ngogonyamelo kumaziko okhathalelo lwabantwana:

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Phantse iimeko eziyi-2,000 zokonakalisa umzimba ++ Ukuhlaselwa
ngokwesondo kuphindaphindeke ngaphezu kokuphindwe kabini

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Iphephandaba i-NW Nachrichten linike ingxelo ngomhla we-13
kuSeptemba kulo nyaka: Ubudlova obuninzi kakhulu

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kwiindawo zokukhulisela abantwana eNorth Rhine-Westphalia
– uhlaselo ngokwasemzimbeni nokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo

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Ukusukela ngo-2022, inani lamatyala
axeliweyo lonyuke ngaphezu kokuphindwe kabini.

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ENorth Rhine-Westphalia, amatyala obundlobongela
besondo enziwe ngabantwana phantse aphindeke kathathu.

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Ezi ziingqonyela ezimbini nje ezimeleyo
ezivela kwiphondo-mbumbe laseNorth Rhine-Westphalia.

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Olu phuhliso lunobungozi asiyonto yenzeke ngamabona-ndenzile:

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Ukusukela ngo-Agasti 2024, yonke i-nursery
inyanzelekile ukuba ibonise le nto kuthiwa

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'ngumgaqo-nkqubo wokukhusela kubundlobongela'.

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Amaziko amaninzi nawo adibanisa
iingqikelelo zemfundo ngesondo kulo mxholo.

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"Amagumbi okuhlola umzimba", "izikona ezitofotofo"
kunye neendawo ezifanayo aziyonto ingaqhelekanga.

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La maqhinga, athengiswa njengalawo anexabiso kwimfundo,
avela kwimigangatho ye-WHO yemfundo ngesondo eYurophu.

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Umxholo wale migangatho uyaphazamisa kakhulu.

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Kubantwana abaneminyaka ephakathi kwe-0 ne-4, oku kulandelayo
kuyacetyiswa: "Ulwaneliseko nomnqweno wokuchukumisa umzimba

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wakho, ukuzincamisa kobuntwana" okanye "amava anomnqweno wenyama,
ukusondelana ngokwasemzimbeni njengenxalenye yobomi bomntu".

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Okunxulumene noku kukufunyanwa kwezakhono zesondo
ngeentlanga ezibizwa ngokuba "ziimidlalo kagqirha".

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Abantwana abaneminyaka emi-4 ukuya kwemi-6
kufuneka "bathethe ngemixholo yezesondo"!

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Oku kukwaxoxwa apha naphaya kumajelo eendaba
oluntu, kodwa kungatyhilwanga i-ajenda enengxaki enkulu

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yokungenelela kwabaphangi bezingane eyayisemva koko.

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Isazi-ntlalo saseFrentshi uThibault Kerlirzin osuka kumbutho
wokukhusela abantwana iMamans Louves uphonononge imithombo

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yeengcebiso zenzululwazi zemigangatho ye-WHO
waza wafumana ababhali abavela kumaqela

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okhuthazo abaxhasa ngokukhululekileyo iphedofiliyha.

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Phakathi kwabo kukho abantu abaye bapapasha
kwiimagazini zabatyholwa ngokuhlukumeza abantwana

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ngokwesondo kwaye bazinzile kakhulu kwezi zangqa.

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Ibroshara yezemfundo "Die schleichende Pädophilisierung"
(Ukwenziwa ubuPedophili Ngokuthe Nzulu) eyipapashiwe

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ngumbutho wokukhusela abantwana i-Demo für alle ithi:

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Abantwana abakhuthazwa ngokwesondo
yindawo enomthako kubathandi bezingane.

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Nangona kunjalo, ukwenziwa kwento yezesondo akufihli
nje kwiikona ezimnyama ze-intanethi, kodwa kukwakhona

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nakwiindawo ezibonakala zikhuselwe njengezikolo neenurseri.

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"Tatort Kita" libizo kubo bonke abazali, ootitshala, abasebenzi
be-ofisi yezempilo yolutsha kunye nenxalenye

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eseleyo yomgangatho wobulungisa ukuba bayiyeke le
ngozi ixhaswa ngurhulumente kwimpilo-ntle yabantwana.

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Ukuze sikhusele abantwana bethu: Nceda
wabelane ngalo myalezo ubalulekileyo!

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Enkosi kakhulu ngaphezu kwako konke
kwi-alliance yentlalo i-DemoFürAlle!

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I-TRAILER

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"Ngoko ke igama elithi 'ingqikelelo
yemfundo ngesondo' alizange likhankanywe."

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Ezi ziingxelo eziphazamisayo.

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"Le: 'I-Ofisi yePhondo yoNondlo lweNtsha imisa indawo
ecetyelwe ukuhlolwa komzimba kwisikolo sangabantwana'"

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Kwaye bayanda ngakumbi nangakumbi.

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"Kulapho ke ndaqala khona ukuzibuza ukuba
ingaba lo mbono wawumhle ngokwenene na."

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Kwenzeka ntoni kwiindawo zethu zokukhulela iintsana?

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"Abantu bayizidalwa ezinesondo ukusukela ekuqaleni kanye."

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"Imidlalo yeeGqirha iyinxalenye yophuhliso
oluqhelekileyo lobuntwana. Nokuba

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bayakonwabela ukuchukumisa okanye umdlalo okanye hayi."

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Kule filimu, siza kubonisa indlela isimo esinengxaki kakhulu
kwimfundo ngesondo esithe sazinza ngayo kwimibutho enamandla.

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"Nanku loo matrix idume kakubi."

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"Uveze izinto ekufuneka zonke iindlu
zikwazi kunye nazo zonke iinkokeli zezopolitiko."

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Injongo yabo: umaleko omtsha wokufakelwa kwabantwana isondo.

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Kodwa oku kunempembelelo enjani kwiintsana?

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"Ke, kwezi kona zifudumeleyo, kwenzeka izinto
esingenakuzicingela nakwamaphupha ethu amabi

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kakhulu, izinto ezenziwa ngabantwana omnye komnye."

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"Oko sele kulukucalula."

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"Ewe!"

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"Enyanisweni, ndidanile ngokwam ngokungathethi kwangoko kuloo
ndibano yabazali ndathi, 'Hayi, andifuni loo nto kumntwana wam.'"

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Imicimbi eneneni ingaphantsi kwezandla zabatshutshisi
boluntu kunye nee-ofisi zoluntu olulungileyo lwabantu abatsha

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iza kuba yinto eqhelekileyo kumaziko okhathalelo lwabantwana.

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Indawo yolwaphulo-mthetho: ikhaya labantwana.
Uhlaselo lokuvusa ingqondo ebantwaneni bethu.

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Yindlela sele iqhubeka amashumi eminyaka: ukwenziwa
kwezentlalo zaseNtshona ukuba zijolise kwimiba yezesondo.

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Ngokunyukayo nangokunyukayo, ngokukhawuleza
nangokukhawuleza, ngokunyukayo nangokunyukayo

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ukunyelisa, kwaye ngokunyukayo kujoliswe ebantwaneni.

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Enyanisweni bekufanele anikezele ngokufundela abantwana kwithala
leencwadi laseBargteheide namhlanje: "Drag Queen Veuve Noire".

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"Kodwa oko, ewe, luphawu olunye lokubaluleka
kolu hlobo lomsebenzi wemfundo, esikwenzayo nathi."

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Kuba kuphela xa sisebenzisana ngenkuthalo neendawo
zokukhulisela iintsana, izikolo, kunye neekholeji

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zobuchule, sinokuphumelela ngokwenene ekufundiseni abantu.

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Phanda? Ngentoni?

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"NgoJuni, ufuna ukusebenzisana ne-drag king u-Eric Bigclit..."

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Munich, imifanekiso efanayo, umxholo ofanayo:

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"... lungiselela iseshoni yokufundela
abantwana abaneminyaka emi-4 nangaphezulu."

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Ukhuliso lokuqalisa ubulili
kwangethuba olukhulayo asiyonto yaseJamani.

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Torrevieja, eSpain: Abantwana abancinci bayadanisa
benxibe iimpahla zokuzithengisa kumngcelele wama-gay.

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Ukusetyenziswa ngokwesondo kwabantwana esidlangalaleni.

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Ingaba abantwana bafanele nokuba khona
kwimingcelele yebhongo lezithandani zesini esinye?

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Kubonakala kunjalo eWrocław, ePoland.

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ELondon, iPharade yePride ngoku
inendawo yayo yosapho neyabantwana.

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Umpapashi wezemfundo waseBritane "i-twinkl"
udumisa i-ajenda yomnyama-ntlango

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("amalungelo alinganayo kumntu wonke") ngale ndlela.

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Kwaye oku kwabangela ingxokozelo enkulu e-USA:

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"Siza kuthatha abantwana benu," bekhwaza abathathi-nxaxheba
kumngcelele wokuzigqaja ngobufanasini eNew York.

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Yayiyimpazamo nje yonke, batsho
abaqalisi beqinisekisa wonke umntu.

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Isilogeni sasisuswe kumxholo waso.

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Ngokwenene?

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Frankfurt am Main, Julayi 2025:

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Lusuku lweChristopher Street, okanye mandithi ziintsuku.

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Oku kwaqala njengomngcelele wokuzingca ngobufanasini
ngoku sekungumsitho weentsuku ezine emalini oMlambo

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iMain, kwaye nabantwana bamkelekile ngokukodwa apha.

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I-CSD Mile ekuthiwa yiyo, inendawo
yayo yabantu abatsha neentsapho.

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'Kulungele abantwana ukuba bakhulule ubuchule babo
bokuyila ngokupheleleyo,' ngokutsho kwabaququzeleli.

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'Ekugqibeleni, indawo yeendwendwe zethu
ezincinci,' babhala njalo kwi-Instagram.

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Ingqikelelo: Iikarousel kunye neenqaba
ezitsibayo ecaleni kwezitendi zefetishi.

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Ii-unicorn zomnyama-mhlophe zidibana
nenkqubo yengcinga yomnyama-mhlophe.

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Amadoda athandana namadoda anxibe izambatho zesikhumba ecaleni
kwabantwana abancinci – ngokungathi yinto

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eqhelekileyo kakhulu kumsitho ogxile ekwenzeni abantu
abadala babe ngabathandekayo ngokwesondo ngokupheleleyo.

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Akukho kugxekwa, wonke umntu uyathatha inxaxheba.

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Kodwa nangona kungabazali abambalwa kuphela abazithatha
ngokuzithandela iintsana zabo babezisa apha, kukho nezinye

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iindawo apho bonke abazali kufuneka bazise iintsana zabo kuzo.

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Kwiindawo ezininzi, ukwenziwa kwabantu abathandana
ngokwesondo sele kuyinto eqhelekileyo ezikolweni.

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Kodwa ayiphelelanga apho.

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Ngoku sele iqala nakwiindawo zokhathalelo lwabantwana.

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Oku kunempembelelo enjani kubantwana?

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Zeziphi iingozi ezibandakanyekileyo
kwaye kuthekani ngemidla yabazali?

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Kule filimu, sichithe iinyanga siphanda,
sidibana neengcali, sihlalutya iinethiwekhi, saza

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safumana iinkcukacha ezothusayo ngemvelaphi yayo.

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Nanku isiphumo.

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Izinto ekufuneka bonke abazali
bazazi – kwanabo bonke oosopolitiki.

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"Lo ngumba ocacayo ukuba ukhathaza abazali
abaninzi ngakumbi: ukufundiswa ngesondo

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kwabantwana babo besebancinci, ngoku kwanasezindulini."

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"Ewe, yinto yobuyatha ngokupheleleyo."

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Iindidi ngeendidi zamaphephandaba ziyayixela le nto.

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Nanku: I-Ofisi yePhondo yoNondlo lweNtsha imisa indawo
ecetyelwe ukuhlolisiswa komzimba kwigumbi labantwana abancinci.

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Loo nto yayiseHanover.

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Sinaso esi apha eBraunschweig: ukudlala ugqirha kwinkulisa.

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Nanku: Indawo yokugcina iintsana ithathelwa
ingqalelo njengendawo yemidlalo yezesondo.

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EKerpen: Ukuzincamisa nemidlalo yongqolobi.

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Ngoko ke kuyo yonke indawo, kwaye ukhona
kwanakwiindawo zokhathalelo lwabantwana zamaKatolika.

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Indawo yokugcina iintsana yamaKatolika irhoxise
imisitho enogonyamelo ebandakanya ukudlala ugqirha – eCologne.

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NaseSwitzerland nayo iyayifumana: amagumbi okudlala
ugqirha ayinto eqhelekileyo kwiinkulisa zaseSwitzerland.

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"Le ikwayinto esiyifumene ngamava
kunye ne-'Parents' Action Initiative'."

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Sifumana iileta ezininzi ngakumbi ezivela kubazali abaxhalabileyo
abaqhagamshelana nathi besithi olu hlobo lwemfundo

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ngesondo okanye ulwazi ngesondo luyagqithisa kwiinkulisa.

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Oku kuqala kwiincwadi eziboniswayo ukuya
kuhlaselwa okwenzeka phakathi koontanga okanye abantwana.

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Kukho ezinye izinto ezitsala ingqalelo yakho
ezixhalabisayo ngokwenene, kakhulu kakhulu.

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Ezi ziindaba eziphazamisayo.

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Konke oku kunoxinzelelo olukhulu kwaye kuyinto
yobuqu kakhulu kwabo bachaphazelekileyo , yiyo loo nto

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abantu abambalwa abafuna ukuthetha ngayo bekhamera .

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UKerstin Kramer ulungiselele ukudibana
nabazali abambalwa abavumileyo ukwenza kanye lonto.

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Ngokwesicelo sabo, asizukuchaza indawo
yokuhlala okanye isazisi sabo bachaphazelekileyo.

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Into esinokuyithetha yile yokuba uhambo lwethu
lusisiisa kwidolophu encinci ndaweni ithile eBavaria.

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Kwaye ibali liqala ngendlela engathakazelisiyo ncam,
ngencoko phakathi kwabamama ababini kwisikolo sabantwana.

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"Wandixelela ngonyana wakhe, abahleka ngokuzwakalayo ekhaya
ngentombi yethu, okanye mandithi ngamava ababeyabelana ngawo."

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Kwaye oonyana bathi intombi yethu ifake umnwe
wayo emva, into abayenzayo imini yonke ekhaya.

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Kodwa intombi kamama ochaphazelekayo
iyakhumbula ngendlela eyahluke kakhulu.

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"Ndiye ndambuza ngqo ngayo. Yayiyintoni?"

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Ingaba yinyani nto leyo uMama andixelele yona?

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Ewe, Mama, yinyani loo nto, kodwa
ayizange ibe njalo kwaphela njengoko ekuxelele.

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Akuzange kube njalo kwaphela xa
amakhwenkwe ayehla ibhulukhwe yam.

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Uxolo, yintoni?

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Waza ke wathi la makhwenkwe amkhuphele phantsi
ibhulukhwe yakhe, kuthiwa izihlandlo ezininzi,

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hayi kanye kuphela, kwaye oku kwakusenzeka rhoqo.

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Ewe, baye baqhagamshelana nathi, kwaye mna bendisele ndithethe
naye emnxebeni kwangaphambili, waza ke wakhankanya

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nangexesha lentetho ukuba intombi yakhe ibe selunxwemeni
ngokwesondo izihlandlo eziliqela ngamakhwenkwe amabini.

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Ngoko ke sithetha ngabantwana apha.

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Indawo yobugebengu: ikindergarten yasebhlorho egxile kwindalo.

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Phakathi kwezinye izinto, kwakukho umbhobho
kwindawo evulekileyo apho abantwana ababenokukhasa bange.

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"Kukho umntu ngaphandle kumhlaba,
ipayipi, itonela, apho unokuzimela khona."

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Oko kungabonakaliyo ngaphandle.

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"Ukuba awujongi ngqo kuyo."

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Kulapho kucaca ukuba kuhlaselwe khona.

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Ewe, kwaye kamva kwavela ukuba amakhwenkwe
ayinyanzele kwaye ayinyothule ukuba ikhulule

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ibhulukhwe yayo phambi kwawo aze afake izinto emva kwayo.

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Kungenzeka ukuba noonyana nabo bafake iminwe yabo emva kwakhe.

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Ngenxa yeminyaka yabantwana, kanye okwenzekileyo akukacaci.

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Kodwa kuyabonakala ukuba kukho into
eyenzekileyo, kwaye yinto enzulu ke leyo.

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"Enyanisweni, intombi yethu
yayinezilonda kwindawo yayo yabucala ngelo xesha.

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Kwaye ndiye ndaya kugqirha wabantwana ndimbuza
ndithi: Yintoni le? Mandenze ntoni? Injalo nje?

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Wakujonga, wakubona, akakwazanga kuthetha nto.

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Kwaye wathi kwakhona ukuba ukuba umntwana akathethi
ngayo, andifanelanga ndiphinde ndimbuze, ukuze

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ndingayinyusi nayiphi na ingxaki yengqondo anokuba nayo.

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Noko ke, eyona nto imangalisayo yindlela
eli ziko elisabele ngayo kwesi siganeko.

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"Yibali nje elenziwe yintombi yam."

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Kwaye ukuba banayo nayiphi na imibuzo
malunga nesondo, siya kuyicacisa loo nto.

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Inye into eyandenza ndacinga yeyokuba,
njengomama – okanye njengotata – sifuna ukwenza loo

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nto ngokwethu kwaye asifuni kuyifumana kwiziko.

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Kwaye ndaphinda ndamxelela ukuba
ndingathanda ukubona ingqikelelo yokhuselo.

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Ewe, ewe, sinayo – kufuneka nayo.

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Kodwa andizange ndiyinikwe.

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Bebengafuni ndijonge ngaphakathi.

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Kwaye kamva kwavela, emva kokuba nomama ezamile
ukuthetha nabaphathi bendawo yokugcina iintsana.

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Yaye yonke into yadluliselwa kumntwana.

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Ngokomgaqo wokuba yonke into yingcinga nje.

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Kodwa kamva kwavela ukuba elinye ingane lalinye liye
lahlangabezana nento efanayo – kunye nabafana abafanayo.

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"Kwaye sinokuvuya kuba sikufumanise kwangethuba,
kuba ke sakwazi ukuthatha amanyathelo kwangoko."

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Ewe, ndithi 'thina', kodwa wena uphendule, ewe, wayilawula.

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Sakwazi ukuthatha amanyathelo kwangoko ukukhusela umntwana wethu.

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Kwesi sinye isizalwane, bafumanise kade kakhulu.

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Intombi ngoku iye kwinkulisa eyahlukileyo.

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Ukuba ingaba umntwana uye wenzakala ngokwasengqondweni
zezi ziganeko kuza kucaca kuphela kwixesha elizayo elikude.

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Into enye iqinisekile: nokuba kunzima kangakanani na ukubuyisela
ngokweenkcukacha oko kwenzekayo ngokwenene

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kwezi "zindlwana zokugonana" kumaziko
okhathalelo lwabantwana, iziphumo zinokuba zibi kakhulu.

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Kwaye oko ngaphandle kokudlala
ngogqirha okanye nantoni na enjalo.

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"Kwakungekho nendawo yokuphanda ngokwenyani."

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Abantwana bashiywe nje bodwa.

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Kodwa yiloo nto kanye ingongoma.

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Le yile nto kanye ecacisiweyo kwiingqikelelo
zemfundo ngesondo kumaziko okhathalelo lwabantwana.

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Kwamkelwa ukuba abantwana baya kuzihlola
bodwa, bachukumise amalungu obufanasini omnye

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nomnye, baze bafake izinto kwimingxuma yabo.

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Akukho mntu uqaphelayo.

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Kwaye nabantwana bakwiminyaka apho
bangasathethi ngale nto ngokukhululekileyo.

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"Ngaba yinto nje eyenzekileyo?"

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Ngokwenene zithetha ntoni iingcali eziziqhelene neengqondo
zabantwana kunye nokuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni ngale nto?

14:19.320 --> 14:23.217
Sinomntu onomdla eNeubrandenburg. Bangabantu abatshatileyo.

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Bobabini baziingcali zokunyanga ingqondo
zabantwana nolonina, ngoko ke masibone ukuba bathini ngayo.

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Ngoko ke siya kuphinda siye
kukhenketha. Ngeli xesha siya eNeubrandenburg.

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U-Anja noRoman Göbeke basamkela kwindawo yabo yomsebenzi.

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Ngokuqhelekileyo, bayabakhathalela izigulana zabo apha.

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Oonobangela bengqondo kunye nonyangi bezindlela
zokuziphatha bancedisa abantwana kunye nolutsha ukoyisa

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ukwenzakala okunzulu okanye iingxaki zokuxhalaba, umzekelo.

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"Ngoko ke, unyango lokuziphatha lwenzeka apha kule gumbi."

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Phambi koko, uRoman Göbeke wasebenza
kwiindawo zokukhulisela iintsana iminyaka eliqela.

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Ngokomsebenzi wakhe, usoloko esebenzela impilontle yabantwana.

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"Abazali ngokwendalo bayinxalenye yayo.

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Ezi zinto sele zithathelwe ingqalelo kwisicelo,
kwaye kukho ezi iyure zabantu abangamareferensi.

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Oku kuthetha ukuba sidinga indawo yabantwana nabazali.

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Kodwa abancinci kunabo bonke ngabo abagxilweyo apha.

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Oku kusebenza nakwicandelo lomsebenzi lika-Anja Göbeke.

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"Ngoko ke, le yigumbi le-depth psychology kunye ne-play therapy."

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Le ngaphana inkulu kancinci kunenye kuba
ndifuna nezinto zokudlala ezaneleyo apha.

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Ngamafutshane: nobabini niyabazi abantwana kunye nengqondo yabo.

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Bakhathalela rhoqo nabaxhatshazwayo.

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Sifuna ukwazi ukuba uAnja noRoman Göbeke bacinga
ntoni ngale meko yokuqalisa isondo ngeminyaka esencinci.

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"Ndicinga ukuba ubulili yinto ekufuneka idityaniswe
neemvakalelo zabantu abadala kunye nobudlelwane obuvuthiweyo."

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Ngoko ke, le asiyonto inokujongwa
yodwa, kodwa kufuneka idityaniswe.

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Kwaye kufanele ukuba abantwana sele
begqibile ukuzazisa ngokwesini sabo.

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Ewe, kulungile, oko kungakho kwenzeka xa sele
ekwishumi elivisayo, okanye ngaphambi kancinci.

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Ngoko ke usakhangela kakhulu isazisi
sakho, kuquka nesazisi sakho sesini.

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Kwaye oko kufuneka kugqitywe phambi
kokuba kwenzeke naziphi na izenzo zesondo.

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Nantoni na enye ingangekalunga, kuba abantwana bangagatywa yiyo.

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Kwaye ngenxa yokuba ubulili obunjalo bungaba yinto
eyahlulweyo kulo mxholo, kwaye bungekadityaniswa.

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"Ewe, ndisoloko ndibona abantwana benjenjalo kwaye
ndiye ndaqaphela nokuba sele benomdla kwinyaniso

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yokuba kukho iintlobo ezimbini zabantu ezahlukeneyo."

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Kodwa oko kuphelele ekujongeni
nasekuqondeni nje: kukho abantu abakhangeleka

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ngokwahlukileyo kwaye benobulili obahlukileyo kunam.

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Kwaye oko kuyichaza kakuhle imida yomdla wokwazi womntwana.

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"Ucinga ukuba abantwana baqala nini ukuba neentloni?"

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Kwenzeka ntoni xa iphazanyiswa, ihlaziswa okanye icinezelwa?

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"Ewe ke, okokuqala, ndiyakwazi ukuqaphela indlela yokuziphatha
ecacileyo kakhulu ebantwaneni xa besiya kwindlu yangasese.

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Abantwana bahlala befuna ukuba indlu yangasese ikwazi ukutshixwa.

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Oko kuthetha ukuba banomnqweno
wendalo wokuzikhwebula kuloo ndawo.

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Ngoko ke ndiyakwazi ukubona ukuba kwelo xesha lobudala – ixesha
lesikolo sangaphambi kwesikolo siqhele ukuqala kwiminyaka

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emithathu ubudala – imvakalelo yokuba neentloni kunye
nesidingo sokubeka imida, nokubona imida yomzimba

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njengekhuselekileyo, zibonakala ngokucacileyo kakhulu.

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"Kunjalo kananjalo ukuba umntwana akhe
ubudlelwane obuhle, ngoko uyakwazi ukwahlula

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phakathi kwabantu angabaziyo nabantu abaqhelileyo.

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Oko luphawu lobudlelwane obulungileyo.

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Kwaye ke nabantwana bayaba neentloni xa
bekwabantu abangabaziyo xa befikelela kwiminyaka

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ethile, malunga neenyanga ezisibhozo ubudala.

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Loo nto luphawu oluhle, kuba ibonisa ukuba iyakwazi
ukwahlula phakathi kwabantu abangaziwayo nabantu abaqhelekileyo.

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Kwaye, kambe ke, xa umntwana sele ekwazi ukwahlula
phakathi kwabantu angabaziyo nabantu abaqhelileyo,

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usenokungafuni kuchukunyiswa ngabantu angabaziyo.

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Ifuna ukugcina umgama othile kwaye
ngokuqinisekileyo ayifuni kuchukunyiswa kwiindawo zayo zabucala.

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Ewe, yinto umntwana anokuyala, ngesiqhelo, ukuba ukhule kakuhle.

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Kwaye iinkxalabo zokungabambeleli, umzekelo,
zichazwa kanye yinto yokuba abantwana abakwazi ukwenza oku.

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Ngoko ke abakwazi kwanto ukwahlula phakathi kwabantu
abangabaziyo nabantu abaqhelileyo, kwaye benza ngendlela

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ephantse ibonakale ngathi banengxaki yokugcina umgama.

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"Kwaye qhagamshelana nabani na omthandayo."

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"Ukunxibelelana okanye nokuhambisana nabani na kwaye mhlawumbi
ungabonisi olu loyiko, kodwa kanye lelo

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luphawu lophuhliso olungaphumelelanga
nokuba akukho nxulumano ilungileyo eyakhiweyo."

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"Oku, ewe kona, kungqubana ngokupheleleyo
noko kusoloko kuthiwa kwezi ngqikelelo zobulili.

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Kusoloko kugxilwe kakhulu kule nto kuthiwa yimfundo.

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Kodwa akukaze kubekho nasiphi na isikhokelo.

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"Kufanelekile kananjalo ukuba bahlala
bengabo abaziingcali abafanayo abaxhonywayo.

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Oku kubandakanya u-Uwe Sielert, u-Jörg Maiwald kunye
no-Stefan Timmermanns, umzekelo. Akuvakali kakhulu kwabanye.

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"Zininzi ezinye iizwi phaya ngaphandle.

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Umzekelo, uNjingalwazi Christian Schubert, ongugqirha kunye
nesazi ngengqondo kwiSibhedlele seYunivesithi e-Innsbruck.

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"Indawo yethu elandelayo: Innsbruck e-Austria."

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Apha sidibana nesazinzulu, unjingalwazi waseyunivesithi kunye
nengcali yezengqondo othe waya kwaye ethathwa

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njengomgxeki weenkalo ezahlukeneyo zonyango
lwangoku azibona njengophuhliso olungathandekiyo.

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Ukujonga umzimba, ingqondo nomoya ngokubanzi yingongoma
yakhe engundoqo, ayikhuthaza nale ncwadi ingeyoyentsomi.

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Okokuqala, sifuna ukwazi: ngaba ebeya kucinga ukuba olu
phuhliso, olu ngoku lubonakala kwiindawo zokukhulisela

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iintsana, lwalunokwenzeka ekuqaleni komsebenzi wakhe?

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"Ewe, kodwa ubungacinga ukuba ke siza kuba sithetha ngeekona
ezifudumeleyo namagumbi okuzihlola kwiindawo zokugcina iintsana?"

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Ngoko ke, abantwana bafanele
bayifumane phi inkanuko yabo yesondo?

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"Hayi, ngokuqinisekileyo!"

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Ubuncinci, akufanelanga bafumanise umnqweno wabo
wesondo; oko kukude kakhulu kunoko bendinokukucinga.

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"Ndinamathub' lapha isicatshulwa esivela kuNjingalwazi Jörg
Maiwald, ongunjingalwazi onyulu wamalungelo

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abantwana nokhuseleko lwabantwana, kwaye
ubhala kwiphephandaba i-"Kindheit" (Ubuntwana):

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Ingcinga yokuba abantwana banokukhula bengenazintlungu zemvakalelo
zesondo, iingcinga nezenzo, yinto nje yamaphupha ekude

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nqwa nenyani, ayibahluleli kakuhle kwaye inokubenza umonakalo.

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"Ewe, ndinomabonakude ocacileyo ngale nto.

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Ndicinga, ndithetha ukuthi — ndiphenjelelwa yipsychoanalysis,
kufuneka kuthiwe njalo — ngoko ke ndingugqirha wengqondo

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we-psychodynamic, ndingugqirha wengqondo wezonyango —
ongaphinda, ewe, avuleke kwiingqwalasela ze-psychoanalytical

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malunga nophuhliso lwengqondo nesondo lomntwana.

21:10.494 --> 21:14.842
Kakade kukho into eqhubekayo
apho, akukho mathandabuzo ngaloo nto.

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Kodwa kum, ezinye iinkalo zibaluleke
ngakumbi xa kuziwa kuphuhliso lomntwana.

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Kwaye konke oku kumalunga nokudibana, ukudibana okukhuselekileyo,
ikhaya elisempilweni, elinothando nelikhuselekileyo.

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Yeyona nto ibalulekileyo leyo, sisiseko
esifunwa ngumntwana, esifunwa ngumntu wonke, kwaye

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yile nto endiyilindeleyo kuphuhliso olusempilweni.

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Ndigxeka ngokucacileyo olu hlaselo
lokwenza izinto zibe zesondo oluqhutywayo.

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Apho kuthathwa ngokuba amandla esondo akhona
ebantwaneni – kwanakwethutyana nje emva kokuzalwa.

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Kwaye uqinisekise kwangoko ukuba eli
gqabantshintshi lingakhula ngokufanelekileyo.

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"Amandla esondo yenye yezo ntshayelelo ziphambili
ebezisoloko zixoxwa ngazo amashumi eminyaka

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njengenxalenye yeli hlaselo lokwenza izinto zibe zesondo."

22:12.994 --> 22:17.403
"Ewe, kunjalo, nam ndiyibonile loo nto, umzekelo
ngo-Uwe Sielert, 'ingcaphephe yezifundo zesondo'."

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Kwisihloko sakhe esithi "Intshayelelo
kuMfundiso wezeSondo," sele ebhekisa kwi-libido

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njengamandla obomi enza umntu omelwe ekuphoxekeni.

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Okanye kwintetho eyayinikwa nguStefan Timmermanns ngo-2013.

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Ukwathetha ngamandla obomi besondo, anabo abantwana sele bekho.

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"Abantu baziinzala ukususela ekuqaleni kanye."

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Imfundo ngesondo inefuthe elihle
ebantwaneni, kuba ubuzali ngamandla obuphilayo.

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"UGqr. Stefan Timmermanns, omnye wabameli
abaziwayo kakhulu beli candelo lemfundo ngesondo.

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Intetho yakhe eyayinikwa kwiminyaka engaphezu kwe-10 eyadlulayo
ibonakala ngathi sisicwangciso-sisikhokelo sento ngoku efumaneka

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kwiindawo zokhathalelo lwabantwana ezininzi nangakumbi.

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Kweli phepha lombhalo, uTimmermans udwelise
izizathu zento ayibiza ngokuba yimfundo eyamkela isondo.

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Umzekelo: 'Ukufumanisa iintsilelo
zakho njengesiseko sokuhlonipha abanye'.

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Kodwa ingaba oko akuthethi na ukuba kufuneka
uzihlole ngabom ezi mida ukuze uzifumanise?

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Mamela uze umangaliswe!

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Ukuzihlola bona nabanye ngamava okufunda abalulekileyo
kubantwana, kwaye abantwana banamhlanje kunokwenzeka

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ngakumbi ukuba babe nawo la mava enasirini kunasekhaya.

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Ngokwezibalo, kusekho omnye umntu womntakwabo ekhaya, kwaye kanye
koku kulinganisa okanye kuvavanya imida, ukwamkela

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imida — andifuni kuchukunyiswa apho, andikuthandi
oko, okanye ndikuthanda oko, ndicinga ukuba kuhle oko.

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Bangakufunda oku ngcono bekwintlanganisela
enkulu yabantwana kunokuba babe nomntakwabo

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omnye ekhaya, kwaye ngulo mntu mnye rhoqo.

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Ngamafutshane, ngenxa yokuba abazali bengavumeli abantwana
babo ukuba bahlolisise imida yokuziphatha ngokomlingane,

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oku kufanele kwenzeke kumaziko okhathalelo lwabantwana.

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Yonke into yokukhuthaza amandla esondo athethwayo.

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Ukuba inkqubela yomntwana ngokwesondo iyaxhaswa
kwaye ikhuthazwe, oku kuyanceda kwinkqubela yakhe

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yobuqu, umzekelo ekwakheni isazisi sakhe sobulili.

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Kodwa ingaba oko kuyimfuneko
ngokwenene kuphuhliso lwabantwana abancinci?

24:19.136 --> 24:23.333
Kulungile, andiboni mfuneko yaloo nto ngokwenene.

24:23.333 --> 24:30.896
Ngoko ke, kum, kuyathandabuzeka ngokwasiseko
ukutsalela ingqalelo yabantwana kwindawo yezitho zokuzala.

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Kuba ngoku banamathuba amaninzi okufumana
ulonwabo. Kwaye kutheni ndingayenza ibe yezesondo loo nto?

24:37.205 --> 24:42.518
Ngoko ke ayinantsingiselo kwelo
nqanaba lophuhliso, kuba nayo ayinaziphumo.

24:42.518 --> 24:45.553
Kulungile, ndiyifumene, andinayo into
efanayo nayo ngokwenzakalo-bophetho lwengqondo.

24:45.553 --> 24:51.347
Andinayo inkqubela yehomoni okanye ye-endocrine ehambelana noku.

24:51.347 --> 25:00.518
Ngoko ke andinayo indlela yokucinga ngaphakathi kum endinokuthi
ngayo ndidibanise isondo ngenjongo yokufumana ulonwabo.

25:00.518 --> 25:07.820
Kungoko ke kuyavakala ukuba olu gqatswa lwenza
imfuno engaphezulu kakhulu kwingqondo yomntwana.

25:07.820 --> 25:10.129
Andicingi ukuba iyimfuneko kuphuhliso.

25:10.129 --> 25:18.060
Ndithetha ukuthi, ukuba ujonga i-psychoanalysis, umntwana,
isana, okanye umntwana omncinci uqala ekwisisigaba somlomo.

25:18.060 --> 25:21.193
Emva koko ungena, umntwana ungena kwisigaba se-anal.

25:21.193 --> 25:26.039
Imalunga nokufundiswa ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese njalo
njalo, isigaba sokuchasa njalo njalo, iwela kuloo didi.

25:26.039 --> 25:30.116
Kwaye isigaba esingobudoda nobufazi
sifika ekugqibeleni, kubakwishumi elivisayo.

25:30.116 --> 25:32.866
Kwaye phakathi nako kukho isigaba sokulibaziseka.

25:32.866 --> 25:36.621
Kwaye wonke umntu ngokuqinisekileyo uyayazi le nto:
ngexesha lobutsha, amantombazana namakhwenkwe ahlala

25:36.621 --> 25:38.813
ebizwa ngokuba "nina makhwenkwe" kunye "nina mantombazana".

25:38.813 --> 25:43.478
Akabathandi kwaphela ukudibana ngokwesondo
kweli banga lobudala, kanye le nto ichaseneyo.

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Bayayichitha ngamandla loo nto.

25:45.441 --> 25:49.266
Amantombazana akhetha ukuba phakathi
kwamantombazana, namakhwenkwe phakathi kwamakhwenkwe, ewe.

25:49.266 --> 25:52.750
Ewe, ndikholelwa ukuba ikhona into
enjengophuhliso lwendalo ebantwini.

25:52.750 --> 26:01.425
Kwaye ndicinga ukuba kunokwenzeka ngokwenene
ukuba kukho uhlobo lobulili olwahluke kakhulu

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kwindlela thina njengabantu abadala esibujonga ngayo.

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Ngoko ke, ndingathi ndiyigxeka kakhulu into yokuba abantu
abadala bazithathele umthwalo wokugweba ngesondo labantwana.

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Kulapho ke kuqala khona kum.

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Kodwa yile nto kanye eyenzekayo.

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Uluntu lwabantu abadala oluya lwenza ngokwesondo ngakumbi,
lufaka iimbono zalo kwindlela yokuziphatha yabantwana abancinci.

26:25.950 --> 26:28.806
Kwakunjalo ke nakuTimmermans kwintetho yakhe ka-2013:

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Kuba isifiso esingokwesondo ngamandla
obomi, amandla obomi, amandla obomi.

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Kulapho ke ibali lethu laqala khona.

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Ukususela ngo-2014 ukuza phambili, siphume saya
ezitratweni sikhalela izicwangciso zemfundo ezazizisa

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uhlaselo lokwenza abantu babe ngesondo, ingakumbi ezikolweni.

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Ngo-2016, i-Junge Freiheit yenza udliwano-ndlebe nesazi
ngezesondo uJakob Pastöter, owayengumongameli we-German

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Society for Social Scientific Sexual Research ngelo xesha
kwaye esenguye nangoku, ecaleni kwesimpoziyam yethu eStuttgart.

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Nangoko ke, wayekhalaza:

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Kwelinye icala, yinyani ngokwenene ukuba i-DGSS
ibichasa umxholo wento endiyibiza ngokuba "yimfundo

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ngesondo exhaswa ngurhulumente" kangangeminyaka eli-15.

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Oku kunxulumene nenyani yokuba kangangeminyaka elishumi
elinesihlanu, kwaye mhlawumbi nangaphezulu, kuye kwacaca ukuba

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abo bathatha inxaxheba kwimfundo ngesondo, abakwamkela
inkxaso-mali kurhulumente kodwa kwelinye icala

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iimpapasho zabo zisasazwa ngurhulumente,
banombono ojikezelweyo kakhulu ngemfundo ngesondo.

27:40.229 --> 27:42.355
Isiphumo sibonakala ngolu hlobo, umzekelo:

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"USina noTim badlala ugqirha", ipapashwe
yiZartbitter e.V., ixhaswe yiSixeko

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saseCologne kunye nePhondo laseNorth Rhine-Westphalia.

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Enye yemibutho emininzi ekhuthaza
ukwenza abantwana abancinci babe sesondo.

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Ndingakhetha kakhulu ukudlala ugqirha.

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Owu hayi.

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Gqirha, khawu, Tim, ungaba ngumama kwaye ube nomntwana nawe.

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Owu, kulungile, mh, ke uGqirha.

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Imidlalo yeeGqirha iyinxalenye
yophuhliso oluqhelekileyo lwabantwana.

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Ngomdla wokwazi ofanelekileyo ngokweminyaka yabo
nangokungathathi cala, amantombazana namakhwenkwe

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amancinci kakhulu ayazihlola amalungu awo okuzala.

28:26.935 --> 28:33.679
Bayakonwabela ukuzichukumisa nokuzihlikihla,
nokwabelana ngokuchukumisana okuthambileyo nabanye abantwana.

28:33.679 --> 28:37.345
Thatha iqondo lobushushu bakho.

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Ukudlala ugqirha yinxalenye yophuhliso oluqhelekileyo lobuntwana.

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Nokuba bayakonwabela ukuchukunyiswa okanye umdlalo okanye hayi.

28:43.294 --> 28:47.336
Ukohlolana, ukonwabela ukuba ze,
umnqweno wokubukela nokubukelwa ngabanye.

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Kodwa kananjalo nokuzincamisa kwabantwana, nto leyo
ebangela ukungaqiniseki okukhulu kubantu abadala.

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Imalunga nothando neemvakalelo nokuphathaphathana
nokuncamisana neentombi zokuthandana nokudlala

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ugqirha nokuba singaxolisa njani iintsapho ezinexhala.

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Kwaye ayiphelelanga apho.

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Umkhondo wale ajenda usikhokelela
naphaya, kwinqanaba eliphezulu kakhulu.

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Yiloo nto kanye echaziweyo
kwimigangatho ye-WHO yemfundo ngesondo eYurophu.

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Ewe, ikhona le matrix idume kakubi, kwaye kwabantwana abasuka
kwiminyaka emisitho ukuya kwemine, phantsi kwentloko ethi

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ulwazi, ulonwabo nomnqweno, ithi mabachukumise umzimba wabo.

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Ukuzincamisa kwabantwana abancinci okanye amava
avuyisayo obudlelwane bomzimba njengenxalenye yobomi bomntu.

29:33.667 --> 29:41.180
Ngokwezakhono, oku kuthetha ukuvakalisa iimfuno,
iminqweno nemida yomntu, umzekelo kumdlalo "wugqirha".

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Kwaye abantwana abaneminyaka emine ukuya
kwemithandathu bayavunyelwa ukuba bajongane nemiba yezesondo.

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Kufuneka bathethe ngezihloko zesondo.

29:48.840 --> 29:55.715
Esi sisihloko sezopolitiko sophulo lokwenza ngesondo,
sipapashwe yi-WHO ngentsebenziswano esondeleyo neZiko

29:55.715 --> 30:00.064
leFederal leMfundo ngezeMpilo, okanye i-BZgA ngokufutshane.

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Imibutho enokubonakala ithembekile kubemi abaninzi,
kodwa le matrix yeminyaka ayibonakali ithembekile.

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Njengengcali yezonyango, ndingatsho ngokucacileyo ukuba
ndinengxaki neenkqubo zokuxilonga ezisetyenziswa

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ngokungakhethanga, ngaphandle kokujongisisa,
ngemizobo ecwangcisiweyo, ngamaphepha esampulu, nemithetho.

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Ngokungathi wonke umntu unye.

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Ngokungathi kukho iipateni ezithile, izakhiwo
zeminyaka. Ukhankanye iMatrix, evela kwi-WHO.

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Ngoko ke apho kuxoxwa ngamaqela athile eminyaka, masithi.

30:27.059 --> 30:29.765
Ukusukela ngoko, kulungile ukwenza oko.

30:29.765 --> 30:36.628
Hayi, esi sidalwa sinobuntu obuzodwa kakhulu, sinezinto
ezintsonkothileyo, siphila kwimeko ethile kakhulu yentlalo

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nengqondo, kwaye, ngokuhambelana nophuhliso lwaso
lwendalo, ngaxa lithile, ukuba umntu uyasibukela aze

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sinikele ingqalelo ngobunono obaneleyo, siya kubuza imibuzo.

30:46.864 --> 30:53.720
Kwaye ndiza kulinda ixesha elide kangako nomntwana
wam, andizukungxamela kwinto naye, ndize ndimnyanzelise.

30:53.720 --> 30:55.780
Kodwa yile nto kanye eyenzekayo apha.

30:55.780 --> 31:04.044
Ukunyanzeliswa kwesicwangciso esithandabuzeka kakhulu,
ngaphandle kobungqina besayensi, kulo lonke ilizwekazi.

31:04.044 --> 31:08.680
Kwaye oko akusebenzi eJamani kuphela, kodwa kuyo yonke iYurophu.

31:08.680 --> 31:15.340
EFranse, kukho umbutho obizwa ngokuba yi-"Mamans Louves"
(Iingonyama Ezizizithulu), owakhe waphanda ngemigangatho

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ye-WHO waza waqhuba uphando oluveze iziphumo ezimangalisayo.

31:19.877 --> 31:24.620
Ummelwane wethu uFransi naye uyayazi ingxaki
yokuqala kwesondo ngokukhawuleza okwandayo.

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Naphaya, nazo ziqhutywa ngamandla aphucukayo.

31:29.760 --> 31:35.153
URegine Schäfer ulungiselele udliwano-ndlebe
lwevidiyo noChristelle Comet, oyingxenye yombutho i-"Mamans

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Louves", ogqithiswa ngokuthi "OoMama Abangamawufu".

31:38.576 --> 31:45.449
Ufunde ngokunzulu imigangatho ye-WHO yaseYurophu.

31:45.449 --> 31:55.478
Ngenxa yeengxaki esizibonileyo kwinqanaba lesizwe, besifuna
ukwazi ukuba yeyiphi imibhalo yenzululwazi ekuthiwa isisiseko

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sento ekuzakuphunyezwa ezikolweni zethu kwilizwe lonke.

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Isiphumo yile ncwadi yophando inamaphepha
angamashumi amathandathu, eyapapashwa ngo-2024.

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Uveze izinto ekufuneka zaziwo bonke abazali
nazo zonke iinkokeli zezopolitiko, ubuncinci abo

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ukhathalelo lwabantwana lubaluleke kakhulu kubo.

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Kwaye yile nto ibalulekileyo kuthi: intlonipho yentlalontle
yomntwana nelungelo lobuzali lokukhulisa abantwana babo.

32:33.443 --> 32:39.868
UThibault Kerlirzin, umbhali wolu
phononongo, ucacisa kanye ukuba ithetha ntoni le nto.

32:39.868 --> 32:45.775
Kwavela ukuba imigangatho ye-WHO
yacwangciswa liqela leengcali ezazikhetha cala kakhulu.

32:45.775 --> 32:50.779
Oku kungenxa yokuba phantse bonke aba
baziingcali babelana ngemibutho edityaniswe

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noMbutho wamazwe ngamazwe wabaSizi beZityalo.

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Ngoko ke, babonakala
bengamatshantliziyo kunokuba bangabaphengululi.

33:02.240 --> 33:05.180
Kwaye oko kuphakamisa umbuzo wokuba kutheni.

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Ngubani onomdla kolu phuhliso?

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UThibault wafumana inxalenye ephazamisayo
yempendulo kwibibliography ye-WHO Standards.

33:14.940 --> 33:23.224
Ibibliyografi inezihlomelo ezininzi, kwaye sendifumene abaxhasi
abathathu bobugebenga obenziwa kwabantwana kwIsihlomelo A.

33:23.224 --> 33:28.197
Nangona kunjalo, undoqo kwaye, kwangaxeshanye, indawo
ebuthathaka yalo maxwebhu unokufunyanwa kumbhalo-lwazi

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wenzululwazi ongokuphuhliso kwengqondo nesondo kwabantwana.

33:31.390 --> 33:38.003
Kwiireferensi ezimalunga nama-50, ndifumene ezili-15 ezinokuthi
zidweliswe njengabaxhasi okanye abaxhasi-mthetho

33:38.003 --> 33:44.127
bemfundo ngesondo yasebuntwaneni okanye
kwanolwaphulo-mthetho lokuxhaphaza abantwana ngokwesondo.

33:44.127 --> 33:48.198
Uza kubona ukuba oku kubandakanya abantu
ababeyingxenye yamaqela okunyanzelisa izimvo axhasa

33:48.198 --> 33:51.467
ngokuvulelekileyo ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kwabantwana.

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Bayibiza ngokuba bubudlelwane phakathi kwezizukulwana.

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Phakathi kwabo kukho abantu abaye bapapasha
kwiimagazini ezibonisa ngokukhululekileyo ukukrexeza abantwana.

34:00.484 --> 34:05.568
Unxibelelwano luboniswe kule
animation kwiwebhusayithi yeMamans Louves.

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Ngenxa yale nto, uThibault wahlula
iingcali ze-WHO zangamacandelo amathathu:

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Luhlaza kuthetha okungenabungozi, umthubi kuthetha
okuthandabuzekayo, kwaye ebomvu kuthetha iindilinga

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ezixhasa ngokucacileyo ukwabelana ngesondo kwabantwana kusasa
kakhulu okanye nobugebengu bokuhlukumeza abantwana ngokwesondo.

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Unxulumano lwaseJamani namaqela abatyholwa
ngokuhlukumeza abantwana ngokwesondo — Gunter Schmidt.

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Umzekelo, wasebenzisana nomntu othile uVolkmar Sigusch.

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Kwaye uSigusch wayebanga ukuba isifiso esingokwesondo
sobuntwana asisobunewunewu nje kuphela, kodwa sisenyanzelweni.

34:37.626 --> 34:46.146
Wasebenzela ijounali i-Archives of Sexual Behaviour,
esekho nanamhlanje kwaye yasekwa nguRichard Green.

34:46.146 --> 34:51.524
URichard Green wayeyixhasi lobudlelwane bezesondo phakathi
komntu omdala nomntwana kwaye wayengumhlobo kaThomas O'Carroll.

34:51.524 --> 34:57.073
Yena, ke, wayengumsunguli kunye nosihlalo wombutho
obizwa ngokuba yiPaedophile Information Exchange —

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iqonga lokuba abaxhaphazi bengabantwana babelane ngolwazi.

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Eli qela lalibangela impikiswano enkulu kwaye
lalifuna ukuba kuvunywe ngokomthetho ukunxulumana

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ngokwesondo phakathi kwabantu abadala nabantwana.

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Indlela abatyholwa ngokuhlukumeza abantwana abangene ngayo
ngokufihlakeleyo kwicala lasekhohlo baza bathimba umzabalazo

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wamalungelo oluntu, njengoko kwaxelwe liphephandaba laseBritane
iGuardian ngo-2014 malunga nemisebenzi yoMbutho woTshintshiselwano

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lweNkcazelo ngeePaedophile ngeminyaka yoo-1970.

35:23.539 --> 35:28.034
Naphakathi kwabaphikisi baseJamani, ingakumbi
kwintshukumo ka-1968, kwakukho iinzame ngelo xesha zokwenza

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umthetho wokuvumela ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kwabantwana.

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Imizekelo eyaziwayo: usopolitiki weqela eliluhlaza uDaniel
Cohn-Bendit, iqela elisebenzayo leqela eliluhlaza likaRhulumente

35:36.282 --> 35:41.024
elibizwa ngokuba "Abantu abathandana nesini esifana nesabo,
Abathandi bamakhwenkwe nabantu abatshintshe isini" okanye uphando

35:41.024 --> 35:44.589
neqela elisebenzayo laseJamani elibizwa ngokuba
"I-Paedophilia", elalibhodi yabaphathiswa yalo

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yayikhe yabandakanya uHelmut Kentler okwethutyana.

35:47.563 --> 35:51.860
Yena, ke, uthathwa njengoyise wasekwa
kweli candelo kanye lemfundo ngesondo.

35:51.860 --> 35:57.960
Saziphatha ngokweenkcukacha ngezenzo zakhe
zokuxhaphaza abantwana kwidocumentary yethu ethi "KentlerGate".

35:57.960 --> 36:03.232
UKentler walandelwa kweli lizwe ngu-Uwe
Sielert, uVolker Siegusch kunye noGunter Schmidt.

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Kwintshayelelo yakhe yencwadi ethi Male
Intergenerational Intimacy ekuqaleni kweminyaka

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yoo-1990, umzekelo, uLetzter wabhala wathi:

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Kukho ubudlelwane obuphumeleleyo bokukhohlela
abantwana obunceda kwaye bukhuthaze umntwana.

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Uqhubeke wathi: "Isoyikiso sokwenza zonke izenzo zobu-paedophile
zohlwaywe ngumthetho asikho sikweni kwaye kufuneka sipheliswe,

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kuba siquka ucalucalulo nokuxhatshazwa kwesigaba esincinci."

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U-Ernst Bornemann waziveza ngokucacileyo
kwincwadi yakhe ethi Das Geschlechtsleben des

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Kindes (Ubomi Bezesondo Babantwana), apho wathi:

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Izenzo zesondo ezingenabundlobongela phakathi komntwana
nomntu omdala azisoloko ziba neziphumo ezibi kumntwana.

36:40.521 --> 36:45.340
Ukwavela nakumgangatho we-WHO
njengereferensi, ngokukodwa ngencwadi yakhe:

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Childhood Faces of Maturity, apho wayethetha ngokutyholwa
kokubakho kobulili kwabantwana abaneminyaka esibhozo.

36:52.749 --> 36:59.095
Umyalezo ongundoqo wale ncwadi kukuba abantu
baziinzala ukususela kumzuzu wokukrokrela.

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Oku kuziveza ebantwaneni ngeendlela ezininzi —
kwimidlalo yabo, kwingcinga yabo enobutyebi,

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kwisidingo sabo sokuchukunyiswa nasekuzichukunyiseni kwabo.

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Yile kanye into esiba sisiseko seengcamango
ezininzi nangakumbi zeenurseri nge-BZGA ne-WHO.

37:17.280 --> 37:23.343
U-Ernst Bornemann no-Gunter Schmidt — ngababini kwimizekelo
eliqela ebonisa ukuba imigangatho ye-WHO ayisekelwanga nje

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kuphela kwimbono enecala elinye yeengcali,
kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ifukwe nzulu kwiindibano

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zabatyholwa ngokuhlukumeza abantwana ngokwesondo.

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Kwaye oko kucetyiswa ukuba
sisisiseko sokukhulisa abantwana bethu?

37:37.392 --> 37:43.737
Ewe, kaloku, ezi ngxweba zokukhohlela abantwana
azisimangalisi kwaphela, kuba umkhokeli walo lonke eli

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nkqubo yemfundo ngesondo ekhuthazwayo ibinguHelmut Kentler.

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Kwaye uHelmut Kentler wayengumthetheleli wokwenziswa
kwabantwana ngokwesondo kwaye ngokwenene wayengumhlukumezi.

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Kamva wafunyanwa enetyala lokuxhaphaza
umntwana, kwaye umfundi wakhe wayenguUwe Silert.

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Kwaye no-Uwe Silert, naye, udlale indima
ebalulekileyo ekubumbeni imigangatho ye-WHO yemfundo

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ngesondo eYurophu ngomsebenzi wakhe kwi-BZGA.

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Kanye, kwaye ezi zinto ziba nefuthe elithe ngqo
kwizicwangciso zemfundo zamaphondo ngamanye awerhu eJamani.

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Phantse zonke izizwe zomanyano, ngaphandle kweBremen,
zine-'sicwangciso semfundo' — isicwangciso sokwalathisa

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esichaza ngqo ukuba imfundo ngesondo kufuneka iqhutywe njani
kwiindawo zokhathalelo lwabantwana kunye noko kufuneka ikuquke.

38:24.607 --> 38:30.775
Kwaye isicwangciso semfundo saseBerlin siquka kanye ezi
zinto, esizifumana ke kwiingqikelelo zemfundo ngesondo, ezithi:

38:30.775 --> 38:35.238
Emva kwethutyana, abantwana bafumanisa
amalungu abo esini baze bawahlolisise ngokunzulu.

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"Ukunqwenela ukwazi ngesondo luyinxalenye enkulu
yokukhula okusempilweni kwengqondo nomzimba, njengokunandipha

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iimvakalelo ezimnandi emzimbeni wakho," utsho uBerlin.

38:44.385 --> 38:46.991
Okanye eNorth Rhine-Westphalia, oko kuthetha:

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Ukushintshiselana ngothando, ukuchukumisana, kunye
nokuhlola umzimba ngendlela engakhoxekanga nengokuthanda,

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kubalulekile ekwakheni isazela nokuqonda isini somntu.

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Oku kudla ngokwenzeka ngokwemvelo
nangokungazenziseki ngokudlala. Abantwana basenursing!

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Leyo yithiyori. Kodwa ke, ezi ngqikelelo
zithetha ntoni ngokwenyani kwabo bachaphazelekayo?

39:09.452 --> 39:17.660
Oomama ababini, abafuna bobabini ukuba amagama abo angachazwa,
bachaza indlela konke oku kwenzeke ngayo enursery yabo.

39:17.660 --> 39:22.500
I-case yokuqala yenzeka kwiziko eliqhutywa
ngumbutho wesisa i-Volkssolidarität eSaxony-Anhalt.

39:22.500 --> 39:29.476
Ndeva okokuqala ngomxholo wemfundo
ngesondo kwiindaba ezingeyomkhetho.

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Kwakungakumbi ngenxa yokuba iingcinga ezinjalo zikhona
kumzantsi onzulu weJamani, kwaye ndothuka, eneneni, ukuba

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into enjalo iyakho, kodwa bendisoloko ndizicingela ndithi:

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Owu, kuthi — apha kwesi sibaya sasemaphandleni — ke, loo
nto ayisoze yenzeke, okanye ubuncinci ayizukufikelela apho.

39:50.860 --> 39:56.231
Kodwa akunjalo konke konke. Ngenye imini, kubhengezwa
iingcamango ezitsha zendawo yokugcina iintsana

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kwindibano yabazali yangokuhlwa — ngaphandle kokuzicacisa.

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Ulwazi oluninzi nengaphezulu lunokufunyanwa kwibhodi yolwazi.

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Ngelinye ixesha, ndandikule bhodi yolwazi ndaza
ndafunda ngale ngcamango yemfundo ngesondo, ecaleni

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kweengcamango zendawo kunye neengcamango zodlame, ukuba iyakho.

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Ndaphaphama ndaza ndacela ibhunga
labazali bethu ukuba liyiphande le nto.

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Kwaye yiloo nto abayenzileyo.

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Kwaye kuphela ngale ndlela umxholo wale ngcamango uya
kwaziwa — oko kukuthi, kanye le nto icetyiswa yi-WHO ne-BZGA.

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Kwaye qaphela, konke oku bekucwangciselwe
ukuba kufakwe ngokufihlakeleyo, abazali bengazi.

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Kulungile, igama elithi 'umxholo
wemfundo ngesondo' alizange likhankanywe.

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Ndiqhele ukuyifunda kuphela kule bhodi —
ngoonobumba abancinci kakhulu ezikweni.

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Ndicinga ukuba isihloko esibaluleke kangaka besinokufaneleka
ukuba kuthunyelwe i-imeyile ejikelezayo,

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okanye kubanjwe intlanganiso yabazali, okanye
kuthunyelwe ileta yolwazi, okanye into efana naleyo.

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Kuba loo nto yinto ebalulekileyo.

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Ubuncinci ityala lesibini belicace ngakumbi.

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Oku kwenzeka kwinkulisa eLower Saxony.

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Besinamahlangano aqhelekileyo nabazali
kwaye besisoloko saziswa kwinto entsha.

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Kwaye ke — ngaloo ngokuhlwa, abaphathi besikolo sabantwana
kunye nootitshala basixelela ukuba kukho ingcinga entsha

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nokuba abantwana kufuneka bavuleke ngakumbi malunga nesini sabo.

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Yiyo loo nto babesimisela ikona kwigumbi
labantwana apho abantwana babesenza khona bodwa — kwaye

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apho, ngokwenene, phantse yonke into yayivumelekile.

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Ngoko ke ezi zinto kuthiwa ziimidlalo yezonyango
— umntu akayi kuphelela phakathi apho nakanjani.

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Noko ke, abantwana baya kuxelelwa apho imida ikhoyo.

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Kwathiwa ke ngoko ukuba ewe, ningaba ze, ningachukumisana,
kwaye ewe — nizihlolisise nina nabanye — bobabini

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amakhwenkwe namantombazana — kunye kwiqela elixubeneyo.

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Ewe, kodwa bendicinga ngandlel' ithile ukuba
simkhulisile umntwana wethu ngendlela eyahlukileyo.

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Loo nto ayizukuma apho kwaphela.

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Kodwa izinto zaphuma ngendlela eyahlukileyo.

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Ngoko ke ndafika ekuseni — ndahambisa unyana wethu
omncinci enasirini, waza utitshala wasenasi

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wandibuza ukuba ndingangena na size sithethe emva kwemini.

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Kwenzeke isiganeko.

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Emva koko ndiya kudliwano-ndlebe ngale njikalanga.

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Intloko yendawo yokugcina iintsana notitshala
wendawo yokugcina iintsana babebesithi qongile apho.

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Kwaye bakuxelela ntoni ukuba kwenzeke ntoni apho?

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Ewe, baza bathi unyana wethu akalandelanga imithetho.

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Mhlawumbi ayenzekanga kule kona
kanye, kodwa yenzeke kwindlu yangasese.

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Wayengayi kwamkela ukhanyelo lomnye
umntwana kwaye wayeza kumchukumisa.

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Kodwa oko bekungayi kuba kunqwenelekayo.

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Ndaza ke ekuqaleni ndadideka ngokupheleleyo ndaza
ndacinga, ingaba oku kunokuba yinyani ngokwenene?

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Ndiye ndathi ke ndiza kuthetha nonyana wam.

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Ewe ke, akazange andixelele nto ngayo.

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Emva koko waxoxa ngayo nonyana wakho?

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Kanye.

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Ndamthatha ndahamba naye kwangoko
— lwalusele lixesha lokumthatha.

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Emva koko sahlala phantsi ngokuzolileyo ekhaya
ndaza ndambuza nje: Ndixelele, kwenzeke ntoni phaya?

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Waza ke waba mncinci kakhulu ngandlel' ithile,
wajonga ezantsi waza wathi: Mama, andenzanga nto kwaphela.

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Ndiye ndamxelela into awayebekwa ityala ngayo.

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Uthi: Ewe, ndiyazi, kodwa andimchukumisanga omnye umntwana.

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Kwakungekho nto kwaphela.

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Kodwa ngoku yayiyintetho yomntu omnye ichasene neyomnye.

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Unyana wam ngequbuliso waba ngumenzi wobubi.

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Kutyholwa ukuba uchukumise
umntwana, kwaye umntwana ebengakufuni oko.

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Kwaye oko ngandlel' ithile kwahlala
kungasonjululwanga — kwakunganakucaciswa.

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Kwaye leyo yingxaki esisiseko.

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Oku kukwabonakala nakwimeko ekrokrelwa ukuba
kukho ukuxhatshazwa ngabantu abadala, njengoko

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kuchaziwe kule ngxelo kaHessischer Rundfunk.

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Umntu odlwengula abantwana osebenza nabantwana
abancinci usemngciphekweni omncinci kakhulu wokufunyanwa,

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ngokutsho kwegqwetha lexhoba u-Ulrich Warnke we-White Ring.

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Oku kungenxa yokuba kukho ingqikelelo esasazekileyo
kwinkqubo yezobulungisa yokuba iingxelo ezenziwe ngabantwana

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abangaphantsi kweminyaka emi-4 azamkeleki enkundleni.

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Isizathu: abantwana abakwazi ukukhumbula izinto
ngendlela efanayo nabantu abadala, kwaye iingxelo zabo

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zinokuphenjelelwa ngabazali babo kunye nabanye abantu abadala.

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Le yimeko enyanzela umntu ukuba acinge nzulu,
ngenxa yobudlelwane obutyhilweyo bezazi ze-WHO

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nabatyholwa ngokuhlukumeza abantwana ngokwesondo.

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Ngoko ke iingxelo zabo azisemthethweni enkundleni.

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Ingxaki ikwukuba apho kukho ukuxhatshazwa phakathi kwabantwana,
ekugqibeleni kuxhomekeka kwintetho yomntu omnye echasa kwenye.

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Omnye umama uyichazile ngokucacileyo kakhulu.

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Unyana wakhe ngumrhanelwa, kwaye ke uyamkholelwa umntwana wakhe.

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Ukuhlaselwa ngokwesondo phakathi kwabantwana nako
kubonakala kukhuthazwa ziingcinga ezinjalo kwaye akunakufundwa.

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Kwaye uyakhumbula, nangona kwakudala,
usakhumbula kude kube namhlanje kwaye uyaluthuka

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lonke elo tyala, nangona esithi akazange akwenze.

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Ingaba abantwana abancinci banokuba ngabenzi bobubi,
okanye ingaba eli gama alifanelekanga kulo mxholo?

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Akangabo bobabini abantwana amaxhoba eemeko
ezingentle abantu abadala abanoxanduva lwazo?

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Kulungile, kwakhiwa ilizwe.

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Abantwana bayafakelwa ngobuqhetseba kwinto ethile baze
banyanzelwe kuyo, apho ke bagqibela bephela koko mna

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endinokukuchaza njengobulili obungeyonyani, oko
kukuthi, obungakhulanga ngokwendalo, njengoko kungaqheleka.

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Njengoko benditshilo, kwakhona, ngokusekelwe
kubudlelwane obuhle nophuhliso olusempilweni, ubomi bezesondo

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obusempilweni buya kuthi ekugqibeleni buvele ngokwalo.

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Yiyo le ndlela.

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Apha, ukuphazamiseka kwenzeka kwangoko kakhulu
ebomini bomntu, obungenanto yakwenza nesondo ngolu hlobo.

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Kwaye ke, ngokuqinisekileyo,
isenokukhuliselwa ngendlela engaphilanga, nto leyo

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enokuthi ekugqibeleni ingakwazi ukwamkela imida.

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Kwaye ke mhlawumbi neentloni, isicaphucaphu kunye
nenkqubo yokhuselo lomzimba yendalo azikwazi ukukhula

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kakuhle nazo. Kwaye oko, ewe, kuvula ucango lokuxhatshazwa.

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Ngoko ke ekugqibeleni, ndingakucingela kakuhle ukuba oku
kukhokelela kanye kwiphikisana noko kunethemba lwabo bakholelwayo

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ngoku ukuba isifiso sobulili sabantwana kufuneka
sikhuthazwe besebancinci ukuze bakwazi ukuzibekela imida

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kwasekuqaleni. Ndingathi kwenzeka kanye okuphikisanayo.

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Kwaye oku ngoku kubonakala
ngokwezibalo, ubuncinci eNorth Rhine-Westphalia.

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Kuye kwavela ukuba inani lokuhlaselwa ngokwesondo
phakathi kwabantwana kwiindawo zokhathalelo

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lwabantwana lonyuke kakhulu kule minyaka yakutshanje.

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Iinkcukacha-manani zamva nje zamapolisa ngolwaphulo-mthetho nazo
zibonisa ukunyuka okukhulu, ngelixa amanani obusela

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obuncinci, umzekelo, oluqheleke kakhulu kubantwana,
esele engatshintshi kangako kule minyaka idlulileyo.

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Ke, xa abantwana besifumana isikxotha esinje,
kufuneka ndicinge ukuba bayatyhafiswa ziimvakalelo, kwaye,

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kwimeko embi kakhulu, baya kwenzakala kakhulu emoyeni.

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Kwaye ukuba uqhelene nezi nkqankalazo kwi-traumatology, ke
sithetha ngesidingo esikhulu sokuphindaphinda,

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oko kukuthi, isidingo esikhulu sokuphinda
kwenzeke iziganeko ezivusa iinkumbulo ezibuhlungu.

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Kufuneka ucinge ngayo njengokudala umkhokha.

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Ukuba ndinabantwana abathile abanokuchazwa
njengabachaphazelekileyo kwaye abafumani nkxaso

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yonyango, okanye le ngxubakaxaka ayisombululwa.

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Emva koko baza kudlulisela la mava abuhlungu kwamanye abantwana.

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Kwaye oko kuchaza, ubuncinci
kwinqanaba elithile, olu phuhliso lwezibalo.

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Oku kukwaxhaswa ngamajelo eendaba.

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Ndithetha ukuthi, xa ucinga emva, kwakusithiwa umxholo
onxulumene nesondo ufanele ukuba kwinkqubo yangokuhlwa.

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Kodwa abantwana banamhlanje bayifumana lula.

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Kwaye ke loo nto ayisiyongxaki kwaphela
kubantwana ukubukela imiboniso enjalo kwiifilimu,

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kwimidlalo yekhompyutha, okanye nantoni na.

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Kwaye oko, ngokuqinisekileyo, kuyingxaki xa iingqikelelo
zemfundo zilandela indlela efanayo kwaye isifiso esingcolileyo

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sikhuthazwa ngenkuthalo kubantwana kuyo yonke indawo.

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Loo nto ayinanto yakwenza nokuba
yintoni na nokuzikhethela komntwana.

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Xa uyibona ngokuphindaphindiweyo kumajelo
eendaba, xa uyiva ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwaye

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ikwathiywa nasenkulisa, umzekelo, "Haa, zihloleni."

48:51.344 --> 48:59.854
Kwaye xa sele eqalile ukwabelana ngesondo, ayisayonto
leyo umntwana azigqibelayo. Endaweni yoko, kugqitywa ngaye.

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Kufanele kwenze lonto.

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Yile ndlela esiya kuyo.

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Kwaye ke ndinoxinzelelo lweqela
olwenza umntwana afumane kunzima ukuluxhasa.

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Kwaye xa usongeza kuloo nto abantu abangabazi ekugqibeleni
abangenanto yakwenza nophuhliso lwengqondo nolwekhathaza,

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isayikholoji, unyango lwengqondo okanye ukuxilongwa kwengqondo,
abantu abanjengabongikazi basemadlelweni, umzekelo,

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abangafundiswanga kulo mxholo ukuba basabele
ngobunono, zeziphi iintsana ezithunyelwa kwezi

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kona zikhululekileyo, kwaye zivela phi kanye?

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Bafumana ntoni kanye kanye ekhaya?

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Ingaba kusenokwenzeka ukuba inkwenkwe, okanye
nentombazana, zajongana nesondo elingafanelekanga ekhaya

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besebancinci, kwaye kusenokwenzeka ukuba zade zaxhatshazwa?

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Ngoko ke ndishiya abantwana ababini bekunye, abasele beqala
ukwakha isimilo sabo, abasele benamava abo okuqala engxabano

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kwaye nabo banokukhula babe nobuntu obuthanda
ukungqubana, oko kukuthi, ubuntu

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obunokuxhatshazwa lula. Omnye ophinda axhatshazwe lula.

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Kwaye xa ababini kubo bedibana — ndithetha ngamandla, ndithetha
ngokuxhatshazwa — ke kwenzeka izinto ezininzi kwezo

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kona zifudumeleyo singenakuzicingela nakwamaphupha ethu
amabi kakhulu, izinto ezenziwa ngabantwana omnye komnye.

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Nangona kunjalo, le miqondiso ithethelelwa
ngokusekelwe ekuthinteleni ukuxhatshazwa, kuzo zonke izinto.

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Ewe kona, imfundo ngesondo ikwangokuba kuqinisekiswe
ukuba abantwana abakwimeko eyingozi bayakwazi ukufuna

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uncedo, bajikele komntu othile kwaye banolwimi lokwenza oko.

50:31.928 --> 50:37.940
I-AWO, enye yezona nkampani zinkulu zaseJamani ezinikezela
ngeenkonzo zokunyamekela abantwana, ide yapapasha inguqulelo yayo

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ye-ajenda ye-WHO kwincwadana enesihloko esithi
"Iingqikelelo zokhuselo nxamnye nokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo

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kwabantwana nabantu abatsha kumaziko nakwiinkonzo".

50:45.964 --> 50:52.544
Kwaye kuyo sifunda into esiyazi kakuhle,
ukusuka kuKentler ukuya kuTimmermanns .

50:52.544 --> 50:55.729
Kwaye bayanda ngakumbi nangakumbi.

50:55.729 --> 50:59.711
Ewe, apha kwingcamango yendawo yokugcina
abantwana encinci evela eLower Saxony, umzekelo, kuthiwa:

50:59.711 --> 51:04.808
Imidlalo yokuphonononga umzimba, edla ngokubizwa
ngokuba yimidlalo kagqirha, yenye yezona ndlela

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zixhaphakileyo nezaziwayo zokuvakalisa isondo lobuntwana.

51:08.513 --> 51:15.181
Ukuze kuthintelwe ukwaphulwa kwemida, kubalulekile ukuba abazali,
abancedisi bezemfundo, kunye neengcali

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kumaziko bahlale bexoxa nabantwana ngale mithetho
ilandelayo yemidlalo yokuphononongwa komzimba.

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1. Ukuthatha inxaxheba ngokuzithandela — ingaba
bonke abathathi-nxaxheba bafuna ukudlala umdlalo?

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2. Ungayeka nanini na. Hayi ithetha hayi!

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3. Akukho mntu uza kwenzakala.

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4. Akukho nto ifakwa kwimingxuma yomzimba.

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5. Iminyaka efanayo: Umahluko weminyaka akufuneki ube
mkhulu kakhulu ukuze kungabikho lungelelwano lwamandla.

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6. Uncedo lungafunwa nangaliphi na
ixesha. Ukufuna uncedo asikokuxelana.

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Ewe, la ngawona mithetho eqhelekileyo, kwaye xa
ndicinga ngokuqhubeka ndixelela abantwana le

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mithetho, yiyo kanye le nto ibanika lo mbono kwasekuqaleni.

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Ewe, ngokuqinisekileyo! Xa wazisa la magama, kuqala
wenza abantwana baqonde ukuba izinto ezinjalo

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ziyakho, uze emva koko ubakhuthaze ukuba baphande nzulu.

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Kwaye oko ngokwenene akuyomfuneko kwaphela kubantwana.

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Ukuba ayikhuli ngokwayo, kodwa kuphela ngolu phulo.

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Eyona nto ihlekisayo ngayo yonke le nto
yeyokuba, ngokwenene, akukho nanye kwezi ngcamango

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zemfundo ngesondo eza kuba yimfuneko kwiinkulisa.

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Kuhlala kuvakala ngolo hlobo, kodwa akunjalo kwaphela.

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Into ekuphela kwayo ababunyanzelekile ukuba bayenze
yayikukubonelela ngesicwangciso sokukhusela kubundlobongela ngale

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Mithetho yokuXhobisa aBantwana noLutsha ka-2021 ukuya ku-2024.

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Yonke i-nursery kufuneka ibe nale nto ukuze
ifumane okanye igcine ilayisensi yokusebenza.

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Kwaye njengenxalenye yale ngcamango yokhuselo kwingxokozelo,
ngoku bonke bayazisebenzisa ezi ngcamango zemfundo ngesondo.

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Kwaye yonke into iyaxubana.

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Iingqikelelo zothintelo zenzelwe ukuqinisekisa ukuba abantu
abadala abaxhaphazi abantwana nokuthintela ukuxhatshazwa

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ngokwesondo kwabantwana ngabantu abadala kumaziko karhulumente.

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Kwangaxeshanye, abantu bathi, kulungile, ukuthintela
abantwana ekuxhatshazweni, siphuhlisa iikhonsepthi zemfundo

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ngesondo ukuze abantwana bakwazi ukubiza izinto ngegama.

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Kodwa oko akuchaphazeli konke konke abantwana.

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Kufuneka uthethe nabantu abadala ukuze
uthintele ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo.

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Ewe, ndicinga ukuba kwimeko apho umntwana
kufuneka athi HAYI ukuze aphephe ukuxhatshazwa

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ngabanye abantwana, oko sele kuyuxhatshazo.

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Ewe, oko kuye kwathathelwa ingqalelo.

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Xa sidlala, asenzakalisi abanye. Hayi, hayi.

53:23.272 --> 53:29.714
Ukuba uthi YIMA... - Ewe, ndiyazi. - ...siza kuyima, kulungile.

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… Ingaba abantwana banako nokuthi hayi,
okanye ingaba indlela yokuziphatha yabantu

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abadala nayo idluliselwa kubantwana abancinci apha?

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"Ndingatsho nje ukuba ayisebenzi.

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Ewe kona, kufuneka uxelele abantwana ukuba
imizimba yabo yeyabo, kwaye akukho mntu

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unelungelo lokubachukumisa ukuba abafuni kuchukunyiswa.

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Oku kufuneka kwaye kumele kuxelelwe abantwana.

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Akufuneki nje umntu alindele ukuba bayakwazi ukwenza njalo.

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Hayi kwiminyaka yabo, hayi kwiminyaka
yase-nursery, abanakukwazi ukwenza loo nto ngokuqinisekileyo.

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Banganako ukwenza oko kamva kwiminyaka yabo
yobutsha – kwaye uninzi lwabo lusenakho ukwenza oko,

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ewe. Ngoko ke nawe kufuneka ufunde ukuthi HAYI.

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Kodwa awunakulindela abantwana abaneminyaka
yasenursingini ukuba bakwazi ukwenza loo nto.

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Loo nto sisiqalo sokufunda ukuba
ndinokubeka imida – kodwa ndiza kukwazi ukwenza loo

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nto kuphela kamva kakhulu, ngokuqinisekileyo.

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Ewe, makucace:

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Inkalo ekhethekileyo yemfundo ngesondo enonxulumano olucacileyo
nokukhethwa kwabantwana isithathwe liliziko ezinempembelelo,

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eziyisebenzisayo ukunyanzelisa i-ajenda enengxaki enkulu evela
phezulu, ngenjongo yokwenza izinto ezingokwenene zingumcimbi

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wabatshutshisi nee-ofisi zoluntu ezijongene nentlalontle
yelutsha zibe yinxalenye yobomi bemihla ngemihla kwiinkulisa.

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"I-Ofisi yeLizwe yeNkathalo yoLutsha eLower Saxony ivale
'igumbi lokuhlola umzimba' kwiziko lokhathalelo

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lwabantwana eliqhutywa yiWorkers' Welfare Association eHanover.

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Ingqikelelo yezemfundo yahlelwa yiSebe lezeMfundo
neMicimbi yeNkcubeko njengoyisongela impilontle yabantwana.

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Kwakukho uvuyo olukhulu ngo-2023,
ngokungathi yonke le nto yayingumsindo.

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Kodwa eneneni, yile nto kanye eyenzekayo kuzo
zonke iindawo zethu zokhathalelo lwabantwana.

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Kwaye ezinye izikhululo zeendaba ezikwicala
lasekhohlo bezixhasa le ajenda ixesha elide.

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Noko ke, le ngqondo 'yokuvuka' ngoku isongela
ukuba yeyona iphambili kumajelo eendaba, njengoko

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kubonakala kule ngxelo yengingqi ye-SAT ka-Epreli 2025:

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"Imidlalo yezigqirha okanye uphando
lomzimba kwigumbi labantwana, ukuzincamisa..."

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ILower Saxony kwakhona, njengaseHanover.

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Kodwa endaweni yokuba ayivale, umphathiswa wezenkcubeko
ngoku uyayithethelela le ngcamango ngazo zonke

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iinyaniso ezingaphelelanga kunye nobuxoki esizityhilileyo apha.

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"Zonke iziko linikwe uxanduva lokuchaza kwiingqikelelo zalo ukuba
liyisingatha njani inkululo yabantwana kwaye ke ngoko

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nokufunyanwa kwemizimba yabo, kuba oku kubaluleke kakhulu ukuze
ekugqibeleni kukhuselwe abantwana ekuxhatshazweni - kwaye la

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asekwe kwimigangatho yezemfundo neyenzululwazi
kwaye ke ngoko ajongwe ngokusondeleyo aze

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ahlolwe yi-Ofisi kaRhulumente yoNondyebo loLutsha."

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"Ukuba uthatha isicatshulwa esinye nje ungasi
kuxelimbeko lwaso, utsho abo baphetheyo eBramsche,

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kunokukhokelela ngokukhawuleza ekungaqondaneni."

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Ukungaqondani? Hayi kwaphela!

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Yingozi ebekwa kurhulumente kubantwana, ekhuthazwa ngabaxhasi
beengcinga zesandla sasekhohlo kumajelo eendaba nakwezopolitiko.

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Ukongeza kwiintsomi ezifana nokuthintelwa
kokuxhatshazwa kunye nokungqinelwa kwenzululwazi,

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kukho enye into edlalayo: amandla asemthethweni.

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Oku kunokubonwa kwakhona kuTimmermann
2013: amalungelo athethwayo abantwana.

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"Ewe kona, oku kuquka nelungelo
lophuhliso oluhle nolobuqu lwesondo kubantwana..."

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Ngamafutshane: kuba abantwana banelungelo lemfundo
ngesondo, abazali babo abasoloko belinqaba, urhulumente kufuneka

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angenelele ukuze anyanzelise eli lungelo kuthiwa likhona.

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Kwaye yiyo loo nto, ngokwembono yale ngcinga, oku
kukulungeleyo: isondo lobuntwana xa sithelekiswa nesesomdala.

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Abo bahlutha abantwana ubuntwana babo baze babafanekise
njengabantu abaseluxanduva lwezesondo basenokuyamkela olu

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phuhliso, kodwa kufuneka bazibuze ukuba ingaba
yinto nje yenzeke ngamabona-ndenzile na ukuba

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luqale kwiindawo apho abantwana bengaphezu koko:

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Izinto ezinomnqweno wokwabelana ngesondo
kubantu abadala abathandana nabantwana.

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Kanti ke, ifakwe kulo mkhuba usasazekileyo wokuthanda
iyantlukwano, itsalelwa phambili ngokungabinazintloni –

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ngamandla angaka kangangokuba nakwicala labalondolozi,
kunqabile ukufumana usopolitiki onobuganga bokungavumelani nayo.

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"Sisasaze olu phononongo kuwo onke
amalungu ePalamente yaseYurophu.

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Sasinoluhlu lwabantu abangama-700, kwaye
ngelishwa kuphendule abathathu kuphela kwabo.

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Kude kube ngoku, akukabikho nyathelo
lithathiweyo lokuthandabuza ukuthembeka kwalo mxholo.

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Oku kubonisa umdla omkhulu abanabo
oosopolitiki kukhuseleko lwabantwana kule mihla.

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Kuxoxwa ngezihloko ezininzi, kodwa
kunqabile ukuba zibandakanye abantwana.

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"Ngenxa yokuba zombini iqela leengcali kunye nemithombo
esetyenzisiweyo zinoburharha, ndikholelwa ukuba

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ukuqhubeka nolu hlobo lwemfundo ngesondo kunceda
ukwahlula abantwana ngokupheleleyo kubuntu babo obungundoqo.

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Kwaye ukuba abantwana bafundiswa ukuba babe nobudlelwane
bezesondo kwasekuqaleni, okanye ukuba bajonge ubulili njengento

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ekufuneka ityiwe njengeelekese, oko kukuthi, njengento
ethengwayo, ukuba bafunda ukutshintsha amaqabane rhoqo, ngoko

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ke kuvela umbuzo wokuba lo mntu uza kugqiba nini, umzekelo,
ukuba azakhe usapho aze angene kubudlelwane obuzinzileyo?

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Yiloo nto kanye leyo abazali abaninzi abayivayo. Yiyo
kanye loo nto kukho ukuphikisa, kwaye kuyaxabiseka.

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Umama waseSaxony-Anhalt, ekunye nabanye
abazali, ukwazile ukunqanda ukwaziswa kwale ngcamango

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kwindawo yakhe yokugcina abantwana okwethutyana.

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"Ngokubanzi, bendikhathazekile yinto yokuba kukho
ingqikelelo yemfundo ngesondo kwasekuqaleni, kuba kum,

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amagama athi isondo nobuntwana azihambelani. Ziyachasanisana."

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Umama waseLower Saxony, kwelinye icala,
uyalusizi ngokungachasi kwakhe oku kwangoko.

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"Enyanisweni, ndicaphukile kum ngokungathethi kwangoko kuloo
ndibano yabazali ndathi: Hayi, andifuni loo nto kumntwana wam!"

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Ndingacebisa wonke umntu ukuba ajonge nzulu kwindlela
yokufunda esetyenziswa yindawo yokugcina abantwana endithumela

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kuyo umntwana wam, ukuqinisekisa ukuba uyakhathalelwa kakuhle.

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Kwaye xa kuvela ingcamango yezemfundo enjalo egxile
kwisondo, ndingacebisa wonke umntu ukuba athi HAYI.

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Kwaye ukuba i-nursery ayikuyeki oku, ndingakucebisa ngokwenene
ukuba umkhiphe umntwana wakho apho umthumele kwenye indawo!

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Kuba ndiyakholelwa – kwaye ndiyabona oku kuye
unyana wam emva kweminyaka emininzi – ukuba akalibele.

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Kwaye andazi ukuba angatshona kangakanani na ngenxa yala
mava akhe okuqala okwabelana ngesondo xa efika ebudaleni.

01:00:06.939 --> 01:00:08.518
Andikakwazi ukutsho okwangoku.

01:00:08.518 --> 01:00:15.544
"Ukuba umntu ucinga ukuba oku kwenzeka rhoqo kwaye ngokwesiqhelo
ngexesha lobutsha, ngoko ke kuya kufuneka akwazi nokungqina ukuba

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kutheni, phantsi kwezinye iingqikelelo, sekusemva kakhulu kwaye
mhlawumbi kude kukhuthaze iinkqubo zophuhliso ezingafanelekanga."

01:00:22.981 --> 01:00:26.200
Kodwa akukho bungqina baloo nto.

01:00:26.200 --> 01:00:39.220
Ngoko ke, kutheni ndingafundisa abantwana ukuziphatha
ngokwesondo xa bengakudingi oku ukuze bakhule baphile kakuhle?

01:00:39.220 --> 01:00:43.174
Ngoko ke ukuba oko akukho, akukho mntu
okwangoku oqinisekisileyo ukuba abantwana baya

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kukhula ngendlela engaqhelekanga okanye ebonakalayo.

01:00:46.520 --> 01:00:53.802
Nangona kunjalo, sibone ukwanda kohlaselo
lwesondo ukusukela oko iindlela ezinjalo zaba yinto

01:00:53.802 --> 01:00:58.040
eqhelekileyo, kwaye olu lwalamano luyabonakala.

01:00:58.040 --> 01:01:02.357
Kodwa andinakungqina okuphikisanayo koku.

01:01:02.357 --> 01:01:09.648
"Uqukumbelo: Ezi ngcinga ngokwenene zinika isikhokelo malunga
nendlela yokwenza ugonyamelo lwesondo nokukhuthaza ukwenza

01:01:09.648 --> 01:01:13.662
isondo okwenyani – ukususela kwiminyaka esemncinci kakhulu."

01:01:13.662 --> 01:01:19.737
"Ukongeza, luxanduva olusisiseko lwabazali
ukufundisa abantwana babo ngezi zinto nokuphendula

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nayiphi na imibuzo abanokuba nayo ngelo xesha.

01:01:23.180 --> 01:01:29.337
Abantwana abajongi ukucinga rhoqo ngesondo xa bengabuzwanga.

01:01:29.337 --> 01:01:32.205
"Ewe, kwaye ikwamalunga nabazali abaphaphileyo ngokwenene."

01:01:32.205 --> 01:01:35.781
Abazali ngenene kufuneka balandelele oku kwaye kuboniswe kubo.

01:01:35.781 --> 01:01:40.940
"Ezi ngcamango zemfundo ngesondo kumaziko
okhathalelo lwabantwana kufuneka zipheliswe."

01:01:40.940 --> 01:01:45.117
Loo nto ayinandawo kwigumbi
labantwana. Abantwana abayidingi loo nto.

01:01:45.117 --> 01:01:51.264
Abantwana badinga ukudibana, hayi imfundo ngesondo. Obu bubugeza!

01:01:51.264 --> 01:01:52.820
Nathi nithathe inxaxheba.

01:01:52.820 --> 01:01:58.784
Yabelana ngale filimu, wazise abahlobo
nosapho lwakho, sasa izixhobo zolwazi.

01:01:58.784 --> 01:02:02.000
Bonisa abanye into eyenzekayo.

01:02:02.000 --> 01:02:07.540
Kuba yindlela iphosakeleyo
ekungekho lula ukuyilahla kuluntu lwethu.

01:02:07.540 --> 01:02:11.552
Ekugqibeleni, kuxhomekeke kuthi, thina bazali.

01:02:11.552 --> 01:02:20.280
Siyinqaba yokugqibela yokulwa ukwenziwa kwezingane zethu zibe
ngamakhwenkwe nentlaselo ye-woke apha: "Crime Scene Nursery"

01:02:20.280 --> 01:02:25.088
(Uhlaselo lwabavukelayo ebantwaneni bethu)
Iprojekthi yefilimu ngu "Demo für alle" (Demo for All).

01:02:25.088 --> 01:02:30.440
Ukuba ungathanda ukuxhasa umsebenzi
wethu, singavuya kakhulu ngeminikelo yakho.

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